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It's hard finding the right boyfriend... my ex-boyfriend cheated on me and then broke up with me... ( scream ) so after that, I was glad to be single sweatdrop

Hmm... Well, yesterday for our anniversary, we went to a water park (it is called blue harbor), he made me supper and then I made the desert, and then we saw the movie The Proposal in theaters! (He admitted he enjoyed it even though it was leaning towards the chick-flick side of things). xd For other fun we walk to the beach, play the Harry Potter Trivia game (but only once in awhile since he has yet to beat me!! and he gets disgruntled when he looses all the time 4laugh ) We do live together (along with my grandfather and brother so it does not seem so taboo to others) so we eat almost all our meals together and such.

*I changed my avi again, but it is for the Gaia spirit week and tomorrow you can dress in all grey, white and black--like an old-time black and white movie. What do you think? *twirls**

Hunting indeed!! I think they must hide... xd I think it is always better to be friends first. Then you get to know each other with out the complications of dating.

Thank you!!! redface 4laugh Hmm... What do you mean by awkward? Awkward concerning the two of us or concerning my brother and grandfather?

And I like your avi! Esp the skin color and hair 3nodding

Hmm... I guess it would depend on the person (everyone looks at friends differently). Maybe not like a BEST friend, but I think it is better to hang out a few times as friends that way, you are able to see what kind of person they are (just to test the waters... does this make sense)? And also, to each his own, everyone approaches this differently. Sometimes people just KNOW right away that it is the right person (I am NOT one of those people, I have to get to know them first and then I know). It is so confusing!! xp

We do have enough privacy 3nodding My grandfather travels a lot so he is here some of the time and when he is here, he works on a few projects around the house (for example, he is currently building a whole bathroom from scratch! He is the type who like to make things). My brother (he is 16) is one of those guys/boys who likes to play video games all the time, so that is where most of his time goes. He also has a girlfriend so he understands the we-like-time-alone-sometimes deal. Not really bored, Tyler (my bf) has a job where he works there 4-5 times a week. We also visit his family often since his brother has just returned from the army (for good) and we play Dungeons and Dragons every thursday. We enjoy the days where we can just sit and do nothing (they come seldom!) We are also in college so that will also keep us busy... As for the temptation... There is a short story. We have decided we will get married in the future (in about a year or two). Since we already made that promise to each other, we decided it would be... okay to give in to temptation? redface I think that is the only way to put it... but we take the necessary measures to prevent pregnancy since we are not fit to be parents (yet! xd ) *giggles a little shyly*


Yeah, I guess there is a whole week planned of dfferent events (starting tomorrow). I saw it in the Spotlighted section and I thought hey! That gives me a solid excuse to change my avi every day (for a week at least) sweatdrop rofl Plus there are prizes (that is always motivation) whee

I think you should go with what you feel! That is always the best way. If your conflicted, I think it is best to take a while to sit and think it out, especially when it gets complicated! And if you do not feel like you want to go further, then yes! you should just be friends with them. However, sometimes guys are shy (exhibit A *points to my boyfriend* ) He never asked me out... we... were just together? sweatdrop I do not even understand it! (Neither does he, apparently, I just asked him xd ) And no, do not worry about questions, I do not mind thinking about them and answering, it helps me think about things I would not normally think about, and that is always helpful.

What is a Gaian Made of Honor/ bridesmaid? That reminds me, I remember looking on a thread once and someone was asking for someone to be their Gaian mother... What does that mean?

And we just made a lovey-dovey promise redface whee We do have a ring however! It was my grandmother's. She pasted away about a year ago and my grandfather gave it to me because he thought she would want me to have it. 3nodding Young? How old are you? (You do not have to answer if you do not want to, you just made me curious) 3nodding

Ooo! I wondered how you always messaged back so quickly in here! I do not have a phone that has internet... I am secretly coveting an iPhone... but until the monthly fees drop a little, I am going to continue coveting only blaugh

Indeed! Love can be sooo confusing! I envy the people who think it is easy! and I also envy you for having an iPhone! scream no fair! crying xd Maybe someday... when I save enough money or get a really good job sweatdrop

Well sure! (about the maid of honor thing). I, however, have no idea how that works... so we will have to investigate 3nodding I recently found out about the spotlight (even though I have been here for over 2 years!) I might have to look through some forums to see if I can find the marriages.

I got you PM and I answered back biggrin

bump...
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Bump?!
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Aww thank you!! I do count myself pretty lucky and blessed. redface

Oooo I have an idpo touch also! I bought a new computer last year and it said that it cam with it for free! I thought "well, I already have an iPod! I can just sell this one on e-bay" (or something like that). So off I got it for free and then I thought "Lets see what it looks like...." and then once I started playing with it, I decided to keep it. xd Because it was very shiny heart

Where would we investigate this? confused *Starts thinking*