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 Posted: Thu Apr 20, 2006 9:41 pm
Well, do what I do. Become friends then be yourself and dangle in front of them for a little while. I had my crush eating out of my hand in a week. ^-^
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Posted: Fri May 05, 2006 10:34 pm
legato_darkfall Well, do what I do. Become friends then be yourself and dangle in front of them for a little while. I had my crush eating out of my hand in a week. ^-^ Dangle it in front of him rofl rofl rofl rofl
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Posted: Wed May 10, 2006 7:53 pm
Me, being the blatantly straightforward person that I am, would tell them outright. Cuz I'm like that. You, you follow you're heart. thell them in a way that's like you.
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Posted: Fri May 12, 2006 7:52 am
try being friends a bit, see how he likes, and if u want something more down the line.
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Posted: Thu May 25, 2006 11:14 am
being friends is the best way to start and then build it up from there. take it easy, start slow and after a while, start giving hints.
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Posted: Mon May 29, 2006 8:12 am
I pretty much wanna repeat what everybody else said. Be his friend first and all that jazz. But try not to do it just because you want a romantic relationship out of it. Build a friendship to gain his trust. Think of it as a way to spend time with him, and be very subtle once you think it's safe to drop hints.
And as I said before: Use it to gain his trust. It's the groundwork of both friendships and relationships, so should you go beyond just friendship withi him (and I wish you luck that you do!) you'll already have that basis of trust.
Good luck! I'll root for ya! =D
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Posted: Tue May 30, 2006 6:53 pm
Vak Hrm...in my opinion, I think you should just approach it much like you would as if you wanted to make a friend...then drop subtle clues and hints that you like them and see how they respond...either A.) they will crack, and admit their feelings to you...or B.) They will decline your advances.
Basically, I'm just saying:
Take it one step at a time, get to know the guy first.
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Posted: Thu Jun 01, 2006 8:11 am
I support the becoming friends approach, however, if you wanted to be more covert about it, you could always ask a friend who knows this person well to go and chat them up. whee
If not, do try to become friends with the person because even if it doesn`t work out the way you would like it to, chances are that you will at least walk out with a good friend!
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Posted: Wed Jun 28, 2006 6:42 pm
the friend thing is a good thing and all but it might not work because it might be he's like my friend. she has had guys confess their feelings for her but hasn't gone out with them because she "DOESN'T date FRIENDS" and some of them weren't so ugly.
all i'm saying is the friend thing is a good approach bit there's a miniscule chance it might not work. i personally like the get-a-person-who-knows-them-to-do-some-recon-about-their-feelings-for-you tactic. it's sneakier. but the make-friends-and-drop-hints is fun. it depends on you in the end though.
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Posted: Wed Dec 20, 2006 11:09 am
I have the same problem sad
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Posted: Thu Dec 28, 2006 4:53 pm
Wow, I posted a topic like this in the other Yaoi guild before about my Gay friend. Feel sorry for him, because he is ALREADY friends with the guy he likes but apparently he already gave out very obvious clues to the person yet the answer is still vivid.
ME however, yes I think you should do that friend tactic. My old boyfriend knew I was a lesbian, and he was ok about it (>.<"; ). I try to help my homofriend by having some MSN chats with the crush to find more about them.
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Posted: Sat Feb 10, 2007 12:01 pm
be friends with him and work from there, i guess.
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Posted: Mon Mar 05, 2007 8:36 pm
but if you do become friends with him,and you tell him,and hes straight,that might put your friendship in a VERY akward position!(catch my drift wink )
but good luck! 4laugh i hope you find happieness
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