Welcome to Gaia! ::

She in turn has admitted a long time crush on me, I've just been oblivious as usual!

sweatdrop And now i've made a fool of myself.

Dear Sir,
I consider my submission a gift to my Master. I am a thoughtful, creative and independent person- so I feel I have a lot to offer. I think of this gift as a way for my talent and good works to honor him in the hopes that the sharpness of my mind and my good character may reflect upon him as a virtue.

In doing so, through love and will, each party has obligations to the other. The servant to serve, the Master to honor and shape that service. To ensure that this is done in a safe and respectful way, the following obligations are acknowledged.

It is the obligation of the Master to provide clear direction. Should a mistake be made or an imperfection be found within the service- correction is required.

It is the obligation of both the Master and Servant to respect and honor the physical, mental, emotional and spiritual safety of each other. This means that personal limits and safe-words must be respected.

It is the obligation of the servant to follow the Master’s direction in spirit and deed to the best of their ability. Should an observed flaw be seen by the servant, they are bound to bring it to their Master’s attention in order to receive further instruction, punishment or discipline.

It is the obligation of the Master to ensure that his Servant is protected from unwanted actions on the part of others.

The intrinsic beauty in this form of relationship is found where love and service to one another meet. The goal of the Servant is to honor the Master in deed, word and style. The goal of the Master is to shape his Servant into someone worthy of the deep pride and delight he feels. To those ends, the Servant is a living piece of art, and the Master the artist.

Like any art- it is made of depth, patience and practice. Depth is seen in the ways in which the Master is served, as service is expressed physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually.

Physical service includes but is not limited to having one’s desires met, such as cooking, cleaning, grooming and obeying instruction.

Mental service includes but is not limited to honoring each other with thoughtful, witty or entertaining ideas that deepen the experiences of both parties.

Emotional service includes but is not limited to listening to each other in order to support one another and maintain the sense of security, caring and trust that is the foundation of this relationship. One of the most important elements of this is aftercare- a step taken to avoid the depression associated with breaking social taboos.

Spiritual service includes but is not limited to fulfilling the spiritual role as a Child in Mysteries to the Master’s benefit, examples of which include using their talents for divination and other forms of spiritual work. All forms of spiritual service are to be placed within the realm of caring and held there in Spirit, Thought and Deed.

Patience is found in the time it takes to truly craft a piece of art. This is accomplished through training.

Practice in any art heightens the skill of the artist- perfecting their style and denotes the attention needed to master a discipline or person.

This is how this servant views the kind of power they are offering. It is a request for direction, support, instruction and common benefit. Since this takes place over a distance, further details would need to be discussed. If this is of interest to you, please contact me in the usual fashion Sir.

If there was any doubt...my Munckin box and the paddle I mentioned earlier. "Shorty" has asked that I put all my BDSM toys in the storage unit I will be getting. So this will not be proof of a kinkygeek's car for much longer crying