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Posted: Mon Dec 27, 2010 7:04 pm
Scars dont make the person Ive got a scar from my lower back up to my neck from where i had surgery I personaly love scars x 3x
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Posted: Sat Jan 01, 2011 8:39 am
xChibi Cannibalx Scars dont make the person Ive got a scar from my lower back up to my neck from where i had surgery I personaly love scars x 3x A big, long, straight, scalpel scar? Sounds gorgeous :]
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Posted: Sun Jan 09, 2011 12:54 pm
Meeatu xChibi Cannibalx Scars dont make the person Ive got a scar from my lower back up to my neck from where i had surgery I personaly love scars x 3x A big, long, straight, scalpel scar? Sounds gorgeous :] It really is biggrin Its a pretty light pink colour too~
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Posted: Mon Jan 10, 2011 9:19 am
SarahLaDuchesse I personally have this sort of issue, and it worries me about what any future partner would think. I have scars on my left forearm where I've cut myself, taking up a good half maybe of my upper left forearm. White ridges sliced across my skin. And I've had this worry for a while... Would someone still want to be with me, knowing I'm a little bit messed up, far enough as to cause harm to myself? The phase has passed, but of course the scars remain, and it's been bugging me. If I have an 'imperfection' on me (Which I due, acne's a b***h), or rather, imperfections, I can see why some guys would turn away from me. I'm that girl in the novels, sometimes. where she likes manga and anime and drawing and writing and video games and comic books, etc. People think that that girl, the 'best friend' would be great to have as a girlfriend. Uh... No. Hasn't happened to me yet. But will my scars just ruin more? Like... I know there are people out there with worse scars. Burn marks, bruises and such, permanent little 'blemishes' that could be seen as unattractive, even though we can't help it. I don't really 'regret' cutting, I just don't like the idea of people never showing any interest because they know how my scars got here. Sorry if this seems pointless... I just want to say this : if he loves you, he'll love you for who you really are ; perfect or not!
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Posted: Wed Jan 12, 2011 2:34 am
xChibi Cannibalx Meeatu xChibi Cannibalx Scars dont make the person Ive got a scar from my lower back up to my neck from where i had surgery I personaly love scars x 3x A big, long, straight, scalpel scar? Sounds gorgeous :] It really is biggrin Its a pretty light pink colour too~ *squeals in delight* Would you be able to get a photo of it without getting banned for inappropriate images? XD
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Posted: Sun Jan 16, 2011 4:40 pm
Meeatu xChibi Cannibalx Meeatu xChibi Cannibalx Scars dont make the person Ive got a scar from my lower back up to my neck from where i had surgery I personaly love scars x 3x A big, long, straight, scalpel scar? Sounds gorgeous :] It really is biggrin Its a pretty light pink colour too~ *squeals in delight* Would you be able to get a photo of it without getting banned for inappropriate images? XD As long as everythings covered but the scar, im sure id be ok o 3o You want a picture? xD
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Posted: Tue Jan 18, 2011 11:32 am
xChibi Cannibalx Meeatu xChibi Cannibalx Meeatu xChibi Cannibalx Scars dont make the person Ive got a scar from my lower back up to my neck from where i had surgery I personaly love scars x 3x A big, long, straight, scalpel scar? Sounds gorgeous :] It really is biggrin Its a pretty light pink colour too~ *squeals in delight* Would you be able to get a photo of it without getting banned for inappropriate images? XD As long as everythings covered but the scar, im sure id be ok o 3o You want a picture? xD Yeah, I was pretty much asking if the scar went too far down. But as it doesn't. Absolutely! It sounds gorgeous!
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Posted: Wed Jan 19, 2011 2:42 pm
I shall be completely honest, scars are a huge turn on for me, and I personally find them extremely attractive. I don't obsess over how they got there, because that can get pretty personal and all. sweatdrop
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Posted: Fri Jan 28, 2011 2:11 pm
As a recovering self-injurer, I am covered in scars of varying levels of visibility all over my arms, legs, and torso. That being said, I have never had a problem with anyone asking me out or wanting to be close to me, even after seeing them. While some people will be less comfortable than others, the majority of people I have dated see it as a sign of strength- I have overcome obstacles, and I am a better person because of it. I wear my scars with pride, because I didn't die. Be proud of who you are, and wear them with a similar pride- others will fall in line.
People love you for who you are, not what you look like. Always remember that.
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Posted: Wed Feb 09, 2011 9:19 am
le chevalier etoile As a recovering self-injurer, I am covered in scars of varying levels of visibility all over my arms, legs, and torso. That being said, I have never had a problem with anyone asking me out or wanting to be close to me, even after seeing them. While some people will be less comfortable than others, the majority of people I have dated see it as a sign of strength- I have overcome obstacles, and I am a better person because of it. I wear my scars with pride, because I didn't die. Be proud of who you are, and wear them with a similar pride- others will fall in line. People love you for who you are, not what you look like. Always remember that. I am a little uncomfortable with self-harm scars. Simply because relationships I've had with self-harmers have ended poorly. I know it's a little bit of a generalization, but still...
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Posted: Thu Jul 28, 2011 9:48 am
xChibi Cannibalx Meeatu xChibi Cannibalx Meeatu xChibi Cannibalx Scars dont make the person Ive got a scar from my lower back up to my neck from where i had surgery I personaly love scars x 3x A big, long, straight, scalpel scar? Sounds gorgeous :] It really is biggrin Its a pretty light pink colour too~ *squeals in delight* Would you be able to get a photo of it without getting banned for inappropriate images? XD As long as everythings covered but the scar, im sure id be ok o 3o You want a picture? xD I have not forgotten! razz
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Posted: Sun Aug 07, 2011 4:37 pm
Meeatu xChibi Cannibalx Meeatu xChibi Cannibalx Meeatu xChibi Cannibalx Scars dont make the person Ive got a scar from my lower back up to my neck from where i had surgery I personaly love scars x 3x A big, long, straight, scalpel scar? Sounds gorgeous :] It really is biggrin Its a pretty light pink colour too~ *squeals in delight* Would you be able to get a photo of it without getting banned for inappropriate images? XD As long as everythings covered but the scar, im sure id be ok o 3o You want a picture? xD I have not forgotten! razz I have, oops D: redface Possibley have a picture tonight or tomorrow moring depending on when i shower
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Posted: Thu Sep 01, 2011 8:41 pm
xChibi Cannibalx Meeatu xChibi Cannibalx Meeatu xChibi Cannibalx It really is biggrin Its a pretty light pink colour too~ *squeals in delight* Would you be able to get a photo of it without getting banned for inappropriate images? XD As long as everythings covered but the scar, im sure id be ok o 3o You want a picture? xD I have not forgotten! razz I have, oops D: redface Possibley have a picture tonight or tomorrow moring depending on when i shower -cranky rawr-
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Posted: Thu Sep 01, 2011 10:33 pm
SarahLaDuchesse I personally have this sort of issue, and it worries me about what any future partner would think. I have scars on my left forearm where I've cut myself, taking up a good half maybe of my upper left forearm. White ridges sliced across my skin. And I've had this worry for a while... Would someone still want to be with me, knowing I'm a little bit messed up, far enough as to cause harm to myself? The phase has passed, but of course the scars remain, and it's been bugging me. If I have an 'imperfection' on me (Which I due, acne's a b***h), or rather, imperfections, I can see why some guys would turn away from me. I'm that girl in the novels, sometimes. where she likes manga and anime and drawing and writing and video games and comic books, etc. People think that that girl, the 'best friend' would be great to have as a girlfriend. Uh... No. Hasn't happened to me yet. But will my scars just ruin more? Like... I know there are people out there with worse scars. Burn marks, bruises and such, permanent little 'blemishes' that could be seen as unattractive, even though we can't help it. I don't really 'regret' cutting, I just don't like the idea of people never showing any interest because they know how my scars got here. Sorry if this seems pointless... I have the issue of blemishes as well. I have the scar of a heart and an 'M' shape carved into my leg, multiple slice scars on my forearms and legs and VERY scarred looking scratches (That I inflicted myself) designed to look like cat scratches. I also have stretch marks on my hips from rapid weight loss and on my breasts from rapid growth. I've found that scars feel more sensitive to touch than normal skin. What my boyfriend does is trace them gently or kiss them. It's a sensual way of 'Making things Better'. ♫♥♫
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Posted: Fri Sep 02, 2011 1:31 pm
Meeatu xChibi Cannibalx Meeatu xChibi Cannibalx Meeatu xChibi Cannibalx It really is biggrin Its a pretty light pink colour too~ *squeals in delight* Would you be able to get a photo of it without getting banned for inappropriate images? XD As long as everythings covered but the scar, im sure id be ok o 3o You want a picture? xD I have not forgotten! razz I have, oops D: redface Possibley have a picture tonight or tomorrow moring depending on when i shower -cranky rawr- Having issues, not sure if/when youll get :/
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