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You have a baby boy, now what?
snip snip
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Uncircumsize me captain.
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Shady Tradesman

PostPosted: Tue Sep 06, 2005 10:59 pm


Lilacwolf
Damn double post
I feel your pain. gonk
PostPosted: Wed Sep 07, 2005 11:07 am


Shady Tradesman
Actually, I do kind of think it is crule. it's like removeing the fingernail on the pinkey of their right hand at birth because it prevents in-grown nails. xp

EDIT: well not exactly crule. The kid'll most likely be happy with whatever you do choose to do.


I'm glad you added the edit. It's pretty rare that people decide they are unhappy with how they've been their whole life, and if they really hate it, there are procedures either way to get the affect they want.
I have to say, though, ingrown nails vs. AIDS and STDs? Not really a good arguement there.

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PostPosted: Wed Sep 07, 2005 12:43 pm


Lilacwolf
Shady Tradesman

I really think you should have waited until he was older to ask him if he wanted to be cercumcized. xp


Yeah.. I can imagine most guys 18 or so would go "They aren't going anywhere NEAR my pecker!!!".

My boyfriend is happy that he is circumcised.

If you do it or not, whatever. It's your choice and no one can deny you the right to choose (unless Bush declares it unconstitutional).


I think that the boy will like it however they grow up with it as, most of the time. It's what they know so how can they know the other way is better or wrose?
PostPosted: Wed Sep 07, 2005 8:45 pm


Yukito Yu
I think that the boy will like it however they grow up with it as, most of the time. It's what they know so how can they know the other way is better or wrose?


That's what I just said.

Savina


Shady Tradesman

PostPosted: Wed Sep 07, 2005 9:10 pm


Savina
Yukito Yu
I think that the boy will like it however they grow up with it as, most of the time. It's what they know so how can they know the other way is better or wrose?


That's what I just said.
Same here. xd
PostPosted: Wed Sep 07, 2005 9:38 pm


Shady Tradesman
Savina
Yukito Yu
I think that the boy will like it however they grow up with it as, most of the time. It's what they know so how can they know the other way is better or wrose?


That's what I just said.
Same here. xd


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Lilacwolf


Yami Trunks

PostPosted: Sat Sep 17, 2005 10:34 am


cleaning is not an issue...im sorry it just isnt

1) I didnt even know foreskin was retractable until what when i was 12? It sounds silly but if you take a bath...or shower it isnt like you need to get a washcloth soap and toothbrush and clean it...the onyl stuff in there (or that should i mean) is whatever is released from your own body...

2) Most people who are making the cleaning comment are well cric'd and dotn have basis to say it...if you can fin me a single guy in the world who will say "OMG i have to go clean my foreskin" then ill shut up...
PostPosted: Sat Sep 17, 2005 5:43 pm


It's not like a guy will grow a forest in his foreskin...

Have you ever smelled a gauged piercing? They REEK. Badly. And it isn't because of lymph fluid or anything. Even completely healed large piercings stink. Why? Because moisture and dirt and crap get caught in there.

I know men who don't even touch their genitals in the shower. They just wash their hair and get out. Imagine traces of urine and dirt and sweat sitting in the folds of your foreskin. It'll smell horrible.

So... serious infection might not be a huge issue in today's society... but there's a good chance that with less than standard cleanings, you'll end up with a smelly d**k.

As far as the "they should choose" idea. Sure. I don't care. But a lot of people are treating this like "Don't pierce your babys ears! Let them choose!".. like it's no different.

Meh. Not exactly sure what my point is. I need to get more sleep.

Lilacwolf


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PostPosted: Sat Sep 17, 2005 7:45 pm


((did a double-post, see the second one))
PostPosted: Sat Sep 17, 2005 7:46 pm


Lilacwolf

Have you ever smelled a gauged piercing? They REEK. Badly. And it isn't because of lymph fluid or anything. Even completely healed large piercings stink. Why? Because moisture and dirt and crap get caught in there.


And thats why...guys...PLEASE do not get a Prince Albert gonk xd Seriously...a fuggin piercing -through- your p***s? No gonk If my boyfriend ever thought of getting one of those id slap him into next century, however, he has NO intention of getting anything pierced in south-ville, so yeah razz

Back on topic. If i ever have any children (thats a BIG IF) and it was a boy, I would never get him circumsized. One- because I do not belong to any religions that mandate it. Two- because I am not going to cut off the skin on my childs p***s just to make it look "cuter" or any of the other reasons people have it done.(many people could argue that piercing a childs ears when they are little is also mutilating, but i have a different opinion on piercings as opposed to actually cutting off and removing the skin on a boy's p***s. I would still wait for my child to decide to have their ears pierced) Honestly, you are mutilating your child for COSMETIC appeal? A p***s, is a p***s, circumsized or not. To me, all penises are beautiful. Thats actually kind of cruel...would you cut your child's ears off because they stuck out and you didnt think they looked good? No, so dont cut the foreskin off to make their p***s look cuter. I personally like uncircumsized better.

To debate the risks of contracting STDs and aids, or developing a Urinary tract infection, those risks have a minimal difference between circumsized and uncircumsized, from what I've heard. As far as cleaning goes, its not that hard to teach your boy just to take a minute or two to retract his foreskin to clean it. Some guys dont even do that, but I dont think it affects them too adversely as opposed to circumsized. neutral There isnt really going to be too much of a build-up under the foreskin when theyre little anyways because they havent started to secrete the kind of fluids that pubescent boys and adult men do. By then the foreskin is much easier to retract.

If there are any statements i made concerning scientific facts or studies that I got wrong, please tell me so. Because of that I usually try not to quote scientific studies or facts because sometimes I do get them wrong and I would rather save face than have someone banter on about me being incorrect.

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AgentCimorene

PostPosted: Sun Sep 18, 2005 5:33 am


I semi witnessed a circumsision. My mom and I were looking at all the new borns in the nursery and we were like "Aw that one is going to get a shot or finger prints or something" as the nurse lifted him up out of his little basket thing. She sat him on a counter, got this scary knife thing, undid his diaper, slid a screen so my mom and I couldn't see anymore and all we heard was the baby screaming after that. I would NEVER do that to my baby. That is horrible and terrible and I'd feel soooo guilty for hurting the little boy. I would wuv him the way he was and would never want to change a thing about him.
PostPosted: Sun Oct 02, 2005 4:38 pm


I'm not sure where I stand on this. I was brought up Catholic and sometimes Catholic boys are circumsized, like my boyfriend. It's sort of a part of Catholic weirdness, a very disguised and hidden (and I think, but don't quote me on this, optional) piece, and it's also a part of Judaism. It's not really fair to condemn someone for following what their religion/culture dictates.
Although circumsizing a boy because his d**k will look cuter that way is stupid. Why should you chop something off of a baby just because their d**k will look better? If that's your only reason for getting your son circumsized, you should wait until they're older and ask their opinion on the matter. Then if they think their d**k will look better that way, then they can get circumsized.
However if it does make sex not as good for either the boy or whoever he's having sex with, it doesn't sound fair to circumsize him. But as there's no proof of that, as far as I know, so that isn't a reason to not circumsize your son.
I guess it's just a matter of a person's beliefs. I don't think I would get my son circumsized, though or if I did, I wouldn't want to be in the room or anywhere nearby because that would be so awful to hear my baby scream out of pain. I would lose it if that happened. Ugh, just thinking about that is making me upset.

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PostPosted: Sun Oct 02, 2005 6:39 pm


alice-chanrawks
I'm not sure where I stand on this. I was brought up Catholic and sometimes Catholic boys are circumsized, like my boyfriend. It's sort of a part of Catholic weirdness, a very disguised and hidden (and I think, but don't quote me on this, optional) piece, and it's also a part of Judaism. It's not really fair to condemn someone for following what their religion/culture dictates.
Although circumsizing a boy because his d**k will look cuter that way is stupid. Why should you chop something off of a baby just because their d**k will look better? If that's your only reason for getting your son circumsized, you should wait until they're older and ask their opinion on the matter. Then if they think their d**k will look better that way, then they can get circumsized.
However if it does make sex not as good for either the boy or whoever he's having sex with, it doesn't sound fair to circumsize him. But as there's no proof of that, as far as I know, so that isn't a reason to not circumsize your son.
I guess it's just a matter of a person's beliefs. I don't think I would get my son circumsized, though or if I did, I wouldn't want to be in the room or anywhere nearby because that would be so awful to hear my baby scream out of pain. I would lose it if that happened. Ugh, just thinking about that is making me upset.


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PostPosted: Sun Oct 02, 2005 8:21 pm


AgentCimorene
I semi witnessed a circumsision. My mom and I were looking at all the new borns in the nursery and we were like "Aw that one is going to get a shot or finger prints or something" as the nurse lifted him up out of his little basket thing. She sat him on a counter, got this scary knife thing, undid his diaper, slid a screen so my mom and I couldn't see anymore and all we heard was the baby screaming after that. I would NEVER do that to my baby. That is horrible and terrible and I'd feel soooo guilty for hurting the little boy. I would wuv him the way he was and would never want to change a thing about him.

I've seen medical circumcisions and they're horrific. I don't understand why they're so damned stretched-out - when a Jewish boy is being circumcised, typically, it's by a licensed mohel and thirty seconds after it's started, it's all over except the tears.

Comparing one to the other, I'm so glad I'm Jewish. neutral

Shaviv


Margawse

PostPosted: Sun Oct 02, 2005 10:52 pm


My fiance is glad he is circumsized. It's his personal preference. and infections or not, it really stinks and gets nasty when a guy doesn't clean under his foreskin.

I would have my son circumsized (when/if I have a son) because I believe it is the right thing to do. I'm also huge on cleanliness. But it's not b/c I'd want him to have a "cute" p***s. Mostly just because I think it would be the right decision to make for my baby. after all, when they are that age, they can't decide for themselves on anything and we don't argue that point on anything else...like names, food, etc...
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