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Posted: Sat Jun 07, 2014 9:18 am
Minnta Aloripma I'm alright, just not used to people doing that. (If you want? It's mostly just the hair and eye color that's based on her. She's the second oldest dragon who's literally as old as time and also manipulates it. She's currently mind controlled by an evil god and sealed in their story though. I can pm you what she looks like if you want. I'll send it again.Oh . . . s-sorry. *moves back in front of her* It's that affectionate thing. (I like stories~ She sounds interesting, though not in a good situation. Hope that gets resolved. I'd like that~ Thank you~ )
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Posted: Sat Jun 07, 2014 9:22 am
Gypsy_Kt Oh . . . s-sorry. *moves back in front of her* It's that affectionate thing. (I like stories~ She sounds interesting, though not in a good situation. Hope that gets resolved. I'd like that~ Thank you~ )-smiles- It's fine, dear. (She gets mind controlled a lot since she's really weak to that type of thing. First it was the god of order and currently the god of chaos. She'll get controlled by the order a*****e again before getting freed. She's meant to serve the time goddess, but hasn't been able to do so for several thousand years. I'll send them to you in my next reply in the pm. You're welcome.)
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Posted: Sat Jun 07, 2014 3:51 pm
Homework and summer classes, you?
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Posted: Sat Jun 07, 2014 4:45 pm
Gypsy_Kt True, and I suppose to each, in their own mind, it's justified. I guess I didn't realize it came across as such. I worry that I will make her sad. Not that she would admit to that to just anyone. (It's actually been discussed ooc that Daenes would probably get a bit pouty were she to see Gypsy cuddling others. At the same time, Daenes knows it makes Gypsy happy and doesn't want to stop that. ) I still get my cuddly moments in if you watch. I-I'm kind of sad now . . . Aw, Kt-fluffy pants, I just worry about you, ya' know? 'Cause every time you get your cuddle on you worry that your elf-friend is gonna go all anger face on your cuddle buddy. And you shouldn't have to feel that way. Nor should Miss-Anger-Management-Issues have to feel jealous and guilty about how you cuddling others makes her feel. I mean, you need lots of cuddles from lots of people to be happy, and she...well, she's never happy, but she needs a monogamous cuddling (among other things) relationship to be less angry.
Plus, Daenes seems pretty set on going down and I don't want to see you dragged along with her.
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Posted: Sat Jun 07, 2014 6:52 pm
Minty Andee Aw, Kt-fluffy pants, I just worry about you, ya' know? 'Cause every time you get your cuddle on you worry that your elf-friend is gonna go all anger face on your cuddle buddy. And you shouldn't have to feel that way. Nor should Miss-Anger-Management-Issues have to feel jealous and guilty about how you cuddling others makes her feel. I mean, you need lots of cuddles from lots of people to be happy, and she...well, she's never happy, but she needs a monogamous cuddling (among other things) relationship to be less angry.
Plus, Daenes seems pretty set on going down and I don't want to see you dragged along with her. Pfft, fluffy pants? Where are these, I think I have need of them. I know you worry and I do appreciate it. I-I care about her though, and she is happy at times. I've seen it~ I-I know . . .
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Posted: Sat Jun 07, 2014 7:49 pm
Gypsy_Kt Pfft, fluffy pants? Where are these, I think I have need of them. I know you worry and I do appreciate it. I-I care about her though, and she is happy at times. I've seen it~ I-I know . . . (Try Digital Fray for fluffy pants) I'm not saying you don't care about her, I think that's probably one of the least understood thing about abusive relationships, how the victims can love their abuser and care about them.
She might be happy at times, but if you get...monogamous with her, how happy is she gonna be when your human friends come to visit? Is she willing to give up her racism for you? Or are you willing to give up us for her? And what about her whole sale quest for revenge, can you still stand by her as she gathers souls to slaughter a village? For something that happened centuries ago?
And what about those she works for? Leviathan and Spice? Already she's shown she won't protect you if Leviathan decides to 'play' with you again. Can you deal with that? Because it's probably just going to happen more the closer you get with Daenes.
I thought that maybe you'd be good for Daenes, originally. That maybe she'd find things worth more than revenge, but it's looking more and more like she's bad for you. I know you've been feeling lonely, and maybe a little left behind because of Shinji and Bittersweet, but just because Daenes is the first one to come along and make you the priority in her love life doesn't mean she's a good choice. I believe that somewhere out there, there is someone who's gonna love you enough to not let their boss make you into a plaything, and you deserve someone like that, Kt.
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Posted: Sun Jun 08, 2014 5:39 am
-Falls out if boxes in the corner- xAx
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Posted: Sun Jun 08, 2014 7:24 am
Minnta Aloripma -smiles- It's fine, dear. (She gets mind controlled a lot since she's really weak to that type of thing. First it was the god of order and currently the god of chaos. She'll get controlled by the order a*****e again before getting freed. She's meant to serve the time goddess, but hasn't been able to do so for several thousand years. I'll send them to you in my next reply in the pm. You're welcome.)Okay, as long as you say so. There seems to be a lot going on around you now. (Goodness, the poor dear. The pictures were great~ )
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Posted: Sun Jun 08, 2014 8:40 am
Minty Andee (Try Digital Fray for fluffy pants) I'm not saying you don't care about her, I think that's probably one of the least understood thing about abusive relationships, how the victims can love their abuser and care about them.
She might be happy at times, but if you get...monogamous with her, how happy is she gonna be when your human friends come to visit? Is she willing to give up her racism for you? Or are you willing to give up us for her? And what about her whole sale quest for revenge, can you still stand by her as she gathers souls to slaughter a village? For something that happened centuries ago?
And what about those she works for? Leviathan and Spice? Already she's shown she won't protect you if Leviathan decides to 'play' with you again. Can you deal with that? Because it's probably just going to happen more the closer you get with Daenes.
I thought that maybe you'd be good for Daenes, originally. That maybe she'd find things worth more than revenge, but it's looking more and more like she's bad for you. I know you've been feeling lonely, and maybe a little left behind because of Shinji and Bittersweet, but just because Daenes is the first one to come along and make you the priority in her love life doesn't mean she's a good choice. I believe that somewhere out there, there is someone who's gonna love you enough to not let their boss make you into a plaything, and you deserve someone like that, Kt. (Did you go look for fluffy pants, or did you have prior knowledge? )Y-you've put a lot of thought into this, and frankly I'm touched. Of course I don't want to give any of you up, and to be fair she's never asked me to. You point out many important things and I can't give you an answer for most. I think you give me more credit than I deserve. I never thought for a moment I would change her in all honesty. And again in fairness, Shinji nor Bitters were ever really mine. I care deeply for them both, but I can't say what their feeling are or were really. Only that they weren't really a match to my own. It's a beautiful sentiment, I'm not sure it's one I believe fully. What someone does and doesn't deserve, who can really say? I'm not saying I do or do not deserve what is and has been going on. Deserving to me just seems a word that feels more appropriate in choosing award recipients or someone to honor. I don't think I'm at my best to really give you the best of responses. This is making me more and more sad.
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Posted: Sun Jun 08, 2014 2:00 pm
Gypsy_Kt Okay, as long as you say so. There seems to be a lot going on around you now. (Goodness, the poor dear. The pictures were great~ )I can switch to something less busy if you'd like. (Glad you thought so, I really like her even though I don't get to right her often in the story until much later. She's a behind the scenes manipulator type.)
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Posted: Sun Jun 08, 2014 2:06 pm
Well, that's one way to get the moving done?(Prior knowledge < u < ) It's okay Kt, I don't expect you to have answers right now. You two are just starting to get serious, you know? I just...wouldn't feel okay with myself if I didn't say something. I'm still kinda mad at myself that I didn't do anything to help you when Leviathan was messing with you, but I had thought Daenes would do something and she is somewhat better equipped to deal with demons than I am and that is exactly the point my ship sank.
I'm not telling you to leave Daenes, that's a decision you have to make for yourself. I promise I'll respect whichever you choose. But I wanna know you at least thought about it first, and I mean really thought about it. 'Cause Daenes isn't really one of those life choices you should make lightly, or quickly. I just don't want you to get caught up in a moment and going both feet in without having thought about it first, okay?Sorry for the sad! It's just, when I see people starting in on bad relationships fictionally, I get worried they want that in real life? Like, I'm totally cool with the fiction of it. I just, wanna point out that this sort of relationship isn't the kinda thing someone should do for reals? Case in point would be something like Disney's Beauty and the Beast. That relationship straight up hits all the warning bells for an abusive ones, and yet it's romanticized and sold to little girls who don't have the life experience yet to know that that crap shouldn't fly.
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Posted: Sun Jun 08, 2014 2:38 pm
Minty Andee Homework and summer classes, you? work, and friends came over and slept sooo late
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Posted: Sun Jun 08, 2014 4:33 pm
● ● ● ● ● ● *huggles* You are so purdyyy.
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Posted: Sun Jun 08, 2014 6:42 pm
Minnta Aloripma I can switch to something less busy if you'd like. (Glad you thought so, I really like her even though I don't get to right her often in the story until much later. She's a behind the scenes manipulator type.)Aw you didn't have to, but I do like that jacket. (I bet she's a fun character to write when you get to. Ah, I see. )
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Posted: Sun Jun 08, 2014 9:01 pm
Gypsy_Kt Aw you didn't have to, but I do like that jacket. (I bet she's a fun character to write when you get to. Ah, I see. )Do you? (She is.)
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