Biggest Turnoffs

[Panyrinth]

Hey guys I'm just hoping to hear some of your biggest turnoffs. Personally I can't stand:
1: Poor hygiene
2: Inarticulate (You can be dumb just know how to say what you mean)
3: One Liners

Yeah those are just three of mine xD I'll post more as the forum gets replies.  

[19mrgir94]

1.) (same as yours) poor hygiene
2.) bad breathe (bleck)
3.) gross hands
4.) hairy chest

thats all i can remember.  

[Panyrinth]

19mrgir94

1.) (same as yours) poor hygiene
2.) bad breathe (bleck)
3.) gross hands
4.) hairy chest

thats all i can remember.

Body/chest hair would definitely make it on a short list of turnons for me xD I like hair in all the right places.  

[19mrgir94]

iAmForte

19mrgir94

1.) (same as yours) poor hygiene
2.) bad breathe (bleck)
3.) gross hands
4.) hairy chest

thats all i can remember.

Body/chest hair would definitely make it on a short list of turnons for me xD I like hair in all the right places.

it depends on the person and what they looked like and where and how much hair there was. sometimes its good and other times...its just like ew dude shave it off!!  

[Thirteenth_Floor]

oh dear.........i have QUITE a few

-poor grammar
-arrogant facial features (been doing psychology for nearly a year and a half and now i see them EVERYWHERE)
-sagging
-guys who ALWAYS dress like gym rats
-people with ignorance
-people who do drugs (extensively)
-wishy-washy people

(((might add some more eventually, when i have an attention span)))

 

[Luminairus]

I think a lot of us can have a very long list if we really thought about it. rolleyes

My top five would be:
1) Smell, whether they are clean or dirty if I don't like your smell I can never be attracted to you. This is my BIGGEST turn off.
2) Facial structure
3) Ego, arrogance, narcissism, assholishness.....take your pick.
4) Long hair
5) Alcohol use...I don't drink it so the more someone else does the less comfortable I am around them.  

[cajunantichrist]

poor hygiene
too skinny
morbidly fat
piss poor personality.  

[Renkon Root]

1.) Bad hygiene (same as everyone else)
2.) Doesn't like cats. (Inversely, if my cat doesn't like him, he's so gone.)
3.) More immature than I am.
4.) Low self-esteem.  

[Luminairus]

Renkon Root

1.) Bad hygiene (same as everyone else)
2.) Doesn't like cats. (Inversely, if my cat doesn't like him, he's so gone.)
3.) More immature than I am.
4.) Low self-esteem.

Not to criticize, but your list is funny to me. xd Bad hygiene so far seems pretty universal, but it is the other three. Numbers 3 and 4, what do you consider more immature then yourself and low self-esteem? As for the cat part, some animals just take time to get used to a person so immediate dislike of someone if your cat isn't fond of them seems a bit to premature. confused  

[Renkon Root]

Luminairus

Renkon Root

1.) Bad hygiene (same as everyone else)
2.) Doesn't like cats. (Inversely, if my cat doesn't like him, he's so gone.)
3.) More immature than I am.
4.) Low self-esteem.

Not to criticize, but your list is funny to me. xd Bad hygiene so far seems pretty universal, but it is the other three. Numbers 3 and 4, what do you consider more immature then yourself and low self-esteem? As for the cat part, some animals just take time to get used to a person so immediate dislike of someone if your cat isn't fond of them seems a bit to premature. confused

Maturity and immaturity isn't something that can be measured and different people are mature/immature in different ways about different things. I guess what I mean when I say "more immature than me" would be someone who can't tell when its time to stop acting childish and get down to serious business. Goodness knows I'm plenty immature and childish (hell! I still watch Cartoon Network when I have the time) but I still handle my finances, keep my apartment relatively clean, take care of my cat, and (since I'm unemployed at the moment) do volunteer work to keep busy. So, I guess when I say "immature", what I really mean is someone who's lazy or inactive.

And low self-esteem... I mean the specific kind of low self-esteem where they need external validation through another person. I have no desire to be in a relationship based on emotional dependency. If the person I'm with isn't a fully formed individual before we go into the relationship then I don't want a relationship with them at all.

Finally, to the subject of my cat. I know not to judge based on their first meeting. My little girl is a p***y. 'Fraidy-cat' doesn't even begin to cover it. I know it takes a while for her to warm up to people. But after a month, if my cat still hasn't warmed up to someone I'm dating, then its time to reevaluate the relationship. We could still be friends.  

[Luminairus]

Renkon Root

Luminairus

Renkon Root

1.) Bad hygiene (same as everyone else)
2.) Doesn't like cats. (Inversely, if my cat doesn't like him, he's so gone.)
3.) More immature than I am.
4.) Low self-esteem.

Not to criticize, but your list is funny to me. xd Bad hygiene so far seems pretty universal, but it is the other three. Numbers 3 and 4, what do you consider more immature then yourself and low self-esteem? As for the cat part, some animals just take time to get used to a person so immediate dislike of someone if your cat isn't fond of them seems a bit to premature. confused

Maturity and immaturity isn't something that can be measured and different people are mature/immature in different ways about different things. I guess what I mean when I say "more immature than me" would be someone who can't tell when its time to stop acting childish and get down to serious business. Goodness knows I'm plenty immature and childish (hell! I still watch Cartoon Network when I have the time) but I still handle my finances, keep my apartment relatively clean, take care of my cat, and (since I'm unemployed at the moment) do volunteer work to keep busy. So, I guess when I say "immature", what I really mean is someone who's lazy or inactive.

And low self-esteem... I mean the specific kind of low self-esteem where they need external validation through another person. I have no desire to be in a relationship based on emotional dependency. If the person I'm with isn't a fully formed individual before we go into the relationship then I don't want a relationship with them at all.

Finally, to the subject of my cat. I know not to judge based on their first meeting. My little girl is a p***y. 'Fraidy-cat' doesn't even begin to cover it. I know it takes a while for her to warm up to people. But after a month, if my cat still hasn't warmed up to someone I'm dating, then its time to reevaluate the relationship. We could still be friends.

I understand all around. Just was curious because they seemed vague to me. Thank you for the clarification. biggrin  

[Dusty-Boy]

fat
A democrat
Jobless
Poor Hygiene
Idiocy
overly hairy  

[Panyrinth]

Oh I forgot:
Guys who don't eat anything but meat bread and potatoes
The line "I don't usually like black guys" I swear I could punch someone every time I hear that one. Especially considering I'm biracial technically not black...
When guys won't try new things
When a guy hides feelings rather than showing them.  

[Dusty-Boy]

iAmForte

Oh I forgot:
Guys who don't eat anything but meat bread and potatoes
The line "I don't usually like black guys" I swear I could punch someone every time I hear that one. Especially considering I'm biracial technically not black...
When guys won't try new things
When a guy hides feelings rather than showing them.

But taters and steak are so damned good...

And corn is good too  

[Panyrinth]

Dusty-Boy

iAmForte

But taters and steak are so damned good...

And corn is good too

Lol as if xD Vegan so I'm bias about the steak, but potatoes and corn need to be with something else before they have any character whatsoever. A guy's as plain as the foods that he eats in my opinion. >.<