I'm an agendered female. I'm also pansexual. I don't feel like a guy or a girl and often change the way I dress to be masculine or feminine depending on which I want to be that day. I just look very feminine so I'm not fooling anyone when I dress masculine and my mom calls me a dyke *cringes* when I dress masculine at all. And when people ask me what sexuality I have, I get so tired of explaining the difference between bi and pan and eventually the conversation ends with me saying, "yeah, I'm basically bi," with a deep sigh of frustration. I'm just hoping I'm not the only one with these issues. Also, when forms (for school, work, etc.) ask what "gender" I am instead of "sex," what am I supposed to put? I live in Florida and there's a good chance I'll be prejudiced against if I put either female or agendered so what do I do?