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 Posted: Sun Jul 31, 2011 8:46 pm
So I'm almost a senior in high school, and this question has always bugged me. What is it with us guys and p***s size?
All my friends have, at one point or another, have claimed to have a big p***s(I don't believe it...). And plenty of other guys at my school have bragged as well.
Me? I don't care about my size. Small, average, big. If the girl loves me, she should find sexual satisfaction anyway, right? I know that If I'm small I wouldn't be mini, but I just don't feel like bustin out the ruler and measuring, in case I'm dissapointed.
Your thoughts? I don't understand.
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Posted: Mon Aug 01, 2011 7:08 am
You're right, way too many guys get all worked up about size. A lot of them lie about their size, brag about their size, get depressed about their size, and even do risky things to try to increase their size. And there's usually no good reason for it. Some women prefer a big p***s, some prefer a small p***s, but most don't really care that much either way. Most women only have really sensitive nerve endings within the first couple of inches of the v****a, and most of us orgasm from clitoral stimulation anyway. I'd say it's more about what the guy does with his body and less about what size any particular part of his body is.
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Posted: Fri Sep 02, 2011 11:33 am
There's also a lot of misconception with p***s size. All the boys at my school do brag about being big and six inches and all that... The thing is.. Six inches isn't all that tall really! And actually I'm a rather nerd when it comes to just random facts about sex (Funny... I don't know some of the basics of sex but I know quirky things) and p***s size averages around 5.1 inches. That changes of course due to heritage (Asians have been known for small genitalia, African-Americans have larger genitalia) and other things. The reason size really ever matters is when you factor in the tightness or looseness of a woman. I being rather tight I preffer 'c***e' I.E Shorter but thicker. And Honestly? There's a point when a p***s is just too big and it's just kinda dumb. (Who wants to rip a tight chick open the first time? Then you can't enjoy it as much all the other times.)
As for the term 'Big' I think people use it wrong. Doesn't big consitute the around size rather than length?
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Posted: Fri Sep 02, 2011 12:27 pm
Xx2Cute2BeEvilxX The reason size really ever matters is when you factor in the tightness or looseness of a woman...Who wants to rip a tight chick open the first time? v****a size doesn't actually vary from woman to woman as much as most people think it does. A lot of people think that short girls or inexperienced girls will be tighter, but that's not usually the case. It actually depends more on the circumstances. A girl can feel tight at one time, loose at another, back to tight again, etc., regardless of her height, weight, or sexual experience. When a girl's v****a feels tight, it's usually because she's not relaxed enough, not lubricated enough, not aroused enough, or any combination of those things. So tightness is often a sign that the girl isn't quite ready for sex at that time. She may need more foreplay, or more lubrication, or more time to get comfortable with her partner, etc. first. When a girl is relaxed, well lubricated, and fully aroused, then she'll generally feel looser. At that point she should be able to have pain-free sex, even if it is her first time and even if her partner is a bit larger than average. If you want to read more about that or if my way of putting it was confusing, try this article: http://www.scarleteen.com/article/advice/a_few_choice_words_about_tightnessXx2Cute2BeEvilxX As for the term 'Big' I think people use it wrong. Doesn't big consitute the around size rather than length? ♫♥♫ Yeah, people often do say "big," when "long" would probably be more accurate.
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Posted: Fri Sep 02, 2011 2:56 pm
LorienLlewellyn Xx2Cute2BeEvilxX The reason size really ever matters is when you factor in the tightness or looseness of a woman...Who wants to rip a tight chick open the first time? v****a size doesn't actually vary from woman to woman as much as most people think it does. A lot of people think that short girls or inexperienced girls will be tighter, but that's not usually the case. It actually depends more on the circumstances. A girl can feel tight at one time, loose at another, back to tight again, etc., regardless of her height, weight, or sexual experience. When a girl's v****a feels tight, it's usually because she's not relaxed enough, not lubricated enough, not aroused enough, or any combination of those things. So tightness is often a sign that the girl isn't quite ready for sex at that time. She may need more foreplay, or more lubrication, or more time to get comfortable with her partner, etc. first. When a girl is relaxed, well lubricated, and fully aroused, then she'll generally feel looser. At that point she should be able to have pain-free sex, even if it is her first time and even if her partner is a bit larger than average. If you want to read more about that or if my way of putting it was confusing, try this article: http://www.scarleteen.com/article/advice/a_few_choice_words_about_tightnessXx2Cute2BeEvilxX As for the term 'Big' I think people use it wrong. Doesn't big consitute the around size rather than length? ♫♥♫ Yeah, people often do say "big," when "long" would probably be more accurate. I guess the more acurrate term in that case would be Elasticity or resistance or something. If a woman has had children and been stretched by childbirth or p***s (Peni? I dunno the plural, Penises sounds weird) she would feel loosened up than say a virgin girl who's mabey masturbates every once in a while. I used the wrong word.
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Posted: Fri Sep 02, 2011 8:18 pm
Xx2Cute2BeEvilxX If a woman has had children and been stretched by childbirth or p***s (Peni? I dunno the plural, Penises sounds weird) she would feel loosened up than say a virgin girl who's mabey masturbates every once in a while. I used the wrong word. ♫♥♫ No, that's not entirely true. Like I said in my previous post, how tight or loose a woman feels depends mostly on how relaxed/comfortable she is, how lubricated she is, and how in the mood she is at the time. Those things can change fairly drastically from one moment to the next, which means that how loose or tight a woman feels can change fairly drastically from one moment to the next. How sexually experienced the woman is has little to nothing to do with it. Fingers, sex toys, and penises do not permanently stretch a v****a out. Your v****a is probably the same size now that it was before you started masturbating, and it will probably still be the same size after you have sex. It will also be the same size whether you masturbate or have sex every day or whether you masturbate or have sex once a year. It may change if you deliver a baby vaginally, but even that isn't a huge change for many women. Even your doctor can't tell whether you're sexually active or not by looking at your v****a, unless you're pregnant, have been pregnant, or have an STD. I highly recommend reading that link that I posted before. Here are some of the highlights from it if you don't want to click links: "...When a woman is aroused sufficiently, her v****a actually loosens and her cervix pulls up to allow for comfortable penetration....So you should be looser when attempting vaginal penetration, not tighter. In fact, feeling "tight" is usually a pretty good indication that a woman is either not ready for penetration or simply does not want to be involved in penetration (or sex, period) at that point....the v****a will conform to whatever is inside it. So when there is nothing in a woman's v****a, it is closed in on itself (in other words, the walls will be touching). Essentially, it goes back to exactly the way it was prior to penetration....and having had sex doesn't decrease tone....You could have intercourse everyday for a year and it still wouldn't change a thing. Similarly, you could abstain for a year and it wouldn't change a thing either....Penetration does not cause any permanent changes in the v****a....it stretches to accommodate and then returns to its previous state. Even vaginal childbirth results in very few changes to the v****a....Having sex will not make you looser. Not having sex will not make you tighter." Now I am not saying that all vaginas are exactly the same. I'm just saying that they are more similar in terms of size than most people realize, and how tight or loose they feel at any given time has almost nothing whatsoever to do with how sexually experienced a girl is. Any woman can feel tight in certain circumstances, and any woman can feel loose in others.
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Posted: Thu Sep 08, 2011 7:30 pm
I'm coming at this from a completely different perspective. I'm a guy and when I was born the doctor said "it's a girl." I started my male puberty when I was 23 by taking male hormones prescribed by my doctor. Essentially, I started out with something the size and structure of a clitoris. Very disappointing. Now I'm about 3 inches, for me I'm happy and satisfied with this. Most would say it's small, I say it's big given my situation.
I am obsessed with my size like many young men are. Most have some sort of link in their minds saying that a large (well, larger than average, not massive) p***s is better. More confidence, more money, more ladies are what people link with having a large p***s.
Sooo...I think the d**k size being so important is part of social stuff.
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Posted: Sat Sep 17, 2011 10:19 am
This is interesting, because the general thing guys always say that a tight v****a is a good v****a.
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Posted: Fri Oct 07, 2011 11:34 am
I'd say that any woman with an arsenal of Cosmopolitan articles wouldn't care about p***s size; there's so many positions out there now that can give the illusion of a larger p***s or deeper penetration that it really doesn't matter anymore.
Now, when I first touched my boyfriend's thing for the first (which was my first time touching a p***s), time I was shocked. I thought he was HUGE. Not porn star huge, but still big. After a quick Google search and some comparison, however, I discovered he's average. But I still think he's big because I have no experience. So whatever. wink
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Posted: Wed Dec 14, 2011 8:31 am
On the plus side, men with erectile or size problems are known to be better lovers because they make up for their "lack of" by focusing more on the girl and her pleasure (more fingering, more oral, more stimulation for her).
So, honestly, I'd rather have a smaller guy if I was promised to be treated like THAT every time we had sex.
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Posted: Fri Dec 16, 2011 6:51 pm
I'm not really concerned with my size but I'd be lying if I said that thought had NEVER crossed my mind, I've asked once or twice but its not because I'm doubting myself, I ask because I want to make sure it's a satisfying size for her.
I think as guys we have to realize we've come with an arsenal of tools (hehe) and we need to use them wisely; p***s, tongue and your hands. Don't let one area be a fixation, I love going down on my girlfriend because I know there are plenty of other things I can offer and that's what seems to make her happy.
If you know how to effectively use those things (and you need to talk to her to find out what she really enjoys) then p***s size should be of no concern.
As the classic saying goes; it's not about the size but how you use it. 3nodding
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Posted: Mon Jan 09, 2012 4:39 pm
I'm concerned with my size. When I was circumsized, the doctor didn't leave me with enough extra skin. The shaft is growing, but the skin is too tight. And it's extremely painful to get an erection. I wouldn't have this problem if I wasn't mutilated by the knife.
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Posted: Mon Jan 09, 2012 7:11 pm
I'm self-consious about my size. I'm very small, and am embarrased about it. I've tried every technique possible. And to increase my size seems almost impossible unless I get under the knife.
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Posted: Fri Feb 17, 2012 11:37 am
Boulivar I'm self-consious about my size. I'm very small, and am embarrased about it. I've tried every technique possible. And to increase my size seems almost impossible unless I get under the knife. Idk if your thinking about surgery cuz It's safe and they just get what's called the inner p***s" but you do have to wait for a week for it to full heal
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Posted: Fri Feb 17, 2012 1:00 pm
Conker4253 Idk if your thinking about surgery cuz It's safe and they just get what's called the inner p***s" but you do have to wait for a week for it to full heal Any type of surgery has risks. p***s enlargement surgery is certainly no exception. In fact, it has a fairly high risk of complication and most of the men who have had the surgery are not happy with the results. No major medical organization has approved the surgery for men with normal penises, and the American Urological Association cautions that p***s enlargement surgery has not been proven to be safe or effective.
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