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Posted: Sun Jan 16, 2011 11:22 pm
I have. it sucks <.< but i let him know about it, and he doesn't mind. I've actually gotten him to cuddle with me before. worst part is it's my best friend O.o anyone else ever have to deal with something similar?
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Posted: Sun Jan 16, 2011 11:39 pm
if he cuddled he mite not be fully straight
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Posted: Sun Jan 16, 2011 11:48 pm
You have? Is this a thing of the past, or are you still. . Er, for lack of a better phrase. . 'crushing' on him? Cuddling probably isn't conducive to getting over a dead-end-crush.
Anyway, I personally haven't. . Probably because I'm too pragmatic. I just don't see the point, so I don't develop them.
P.S. Cuddling between two men isn't necessarily gay. He could just be open.
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Posted: Mon Jan 17, 2011 12:06 am
Aspettami You have? Is this a thing of the past, or are you still. . Er, for lack of a better phrase. . 'crushing' on him? Cuddling probably isn't conducive to getting over a dead-end-crush.
Anyway, I personally haven't. . Probably because I'm too pragmatic. I just don't see the point, so I don't develop them.
P.S. Cuddling between two men isn't necessarily gay. He could just be open.
yes it mite not be gay but it does raise a flag
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Posted: Mon Jan 17, 2011 12:13 am
Zane Donovan yes it mite not be gay but it does raise a flag
Perhaps. Not in mine own opinion. . But I see how it could.
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Posted: Mon Jan 17, 2011 12:19 am
Aspettami Zane Donovan yes it mite not be gay but it does raise a flag
Perhaps. Not in mine own opinion. . But I see how it could.
*nods*
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Posted: Mon Jan 17, 2011 12:27 am
Aspettami You have? Is this a thing of the past, or are you still. . Er, for lack of a better phrase. . 'crushing' on him? Cuddling probably isn't conducive to getting over a dead-end-crush.
Anyway, I personally haven't. . Probably because I'm too pragmatic. I just don't see the point, so I don't develop them.
P.S. Cuddling between two men isn't necessarily gay. He could just be open.
i am still :/ and he is bi-curios. personally i don't think he's straight at all based on how he acts towards me. he's even admitted to liking me back, it's just he feels awkward about the whole thing i guess, i'm the first guy that's ever had an interest in him and vice/versa. We're pretty close friends though regardless so it's kinda both our fault for it happening in the first place.
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Posted: Mon Jan 17, 2011 12:34 am
Afterlife remedy i am still :/ and he is bi-curios. personally i don't think he's straight at all based on how he acts towards me. he's even admitted to liking me back, it's just he feels awkward about the whole thing i guess, i'm the first guy that's ever had an interest in him and vice/versa. We're pretty close friends though regardless so it's kinda both our fault for it happening in the first place.
Well, I trust you know what you're doing, and you know the risks. I also don't have any place giving advice on matters like this. e.e;.
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Posted: Mon Jan 17, 2011 12:54 am
Aspettami Afterlife remedy i am still :/ and he is bi-curios. personally i don't think he's straight at all based on how he acts towards me. he's even admitted to liking me back, it's just he feels awkward about the whole thing i guess, i'm the first guy that's ever had an interest in him and vice/versa. We're pretty close friends though regardless so it's kinda both our fault for it happening in the first place.
Well, I trust you know what you're doing, and you know the risks. I also don't have any place giving advice on matters like this. e.e;.
I do know what i'm doing for the most part. I've gotten myself into some pretty sheisty situations before and i don't plan on letting that happen again
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Posted: Mon Jan 17, 2011 12:54 am
only advice i can give is go for it
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Posted: Mon Jan 17, 2011 1:12 am
Zane Donovan only advice i can give is go for it
Even knowing that his curiosity might/will go away?
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Posted: Mon Jan 17, 2011 1:15 am
Afterlife remedy I do know what i'm doing for the most part. I've gotten myself into some pretty sheisty situations before and i don't plan on letting that happen again
I'm glad you're being smart about it. :'D A lot of people rush into things and end up getting hurt. Which is always a shame.
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Posted: Mon Jan 17, 2011 1:18 am
Aspettami Zane Donovan only advice i can give is go for it
Even knowing that his curiosity might/will go away?
i dont mean just jump into the whole relationship i mean if he does show interest you dont need to just stop it all the two of them should talk about what this means and stuff like that.
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Posted: Mon Jan 17, 2011 1:20 am
Aspettami Afterlife remedy I do know what i'm doing for the most part. I've gotten myself into some pretty sheisty situations before and i don't plan on letting that happen again
I'm glad you're being smart about it. :'D A lot of people rush into things and end up getting hurt. Which is always a shame.
thats pretty much exactly what happend to me before. rushed, and hit a wall rock hard. (metaphorically speaking) don't wanna let that happen again. i'm better off alone than i would be going and risking it all.
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Posted: Mon Jan 17, 2011 1:21 am
Zane Donovan Aspettami Zane Donovan only advice i can give is go for it
Even knowing that his curiosity might/will go away?
i dont mean just jump into the whole relationship i mean if he does show interest you dont need to just stop it all the two of them should talk about what this means and stuff like that. yea nothing hardcore has really happened between us yet but it's been over a year an we still feel the same about each other, it's just neither of us is sure what to do about it.
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