ever fall for a straight guy?

[Beast Penguin]

I have. it sucks <.<
but i let him know about it, and he doesn't mind. I've actually gotten him to cuddle with me before.
worst part is it's my best friend O.o
anyone else ever have to deal with something similar?  

[Zane Donovan]

if he cuddled he mite not be fully straight  

[Aspettami]

You have? Is this a thing of the past, or are you still. . Er, for lack of a better phrase. . 'crushing' on him? Cuddling probably isn't conducive to getting over a dead-end-crush.

Anyway, I personally haven't. . Probably because I'm too pragmatic. I just don't see the point, so I don't develop them.

P.S. Cuddling between two men isn't necessarily gay. He could just be open.

 

[Zane Donovan]

Aspettami

You have? Is this a thing of the past, or are you still. . Er, for lack of a better phrase. . 'crushing' on him? Cuddling probably isn't conducive to getting over a dead-end-crush.

Anyway, I personally haven't. . Probably because I'm too pragmatic. I just don't see the point, so I don't develop them.

P.S. Cuddling between two men isn't necessarily gay. He could just be open.

yes it mite not be gay but it does raise a flag  

[Aspettami]

Zane Donovan

yes it mite not be gay but it does raise a flag

Perhaps. Not in mine own opinion. . But I see how it could.

 

[Zane Donovan]

Aspettami

Zane Donovan

yes it mite not be gay but it does raise a flag

Perhaps. Not in mine own opinion. . But I see how it could.

*nods*  

[Beast Penguin]

Aspettami

You have? Is this a thing of the past, or are you still. . Er, for lack of a better phrase. . 'crushing' on him? Cuddling probably isn't conducive to getting over a dead-end-crush.

Anyway, I personally haven't. . Probably because I'm too pragmatic. I just don't see the point, so I don't develop them.

P.S. Cuddling between two men isn't necessarily gay. He could just be open.

i am still :/
and he is bi-curios.
personally i don't think he's straight at all based on how he acts towards me.
he's even admitted to liking me back, it's just he feels awkward about the whole thing i guess, i'm the first guy that's ever had an interest in him and vice/versa.
We're pretty close friends though regardless so it's kinda both our fault for it happening in the first place.  

[Aspettami]

Afterlife remedy

i am still :/
and he is bi-curios.
personally i don't think he's straight at all based on how he acts towards me.
he's even admitted to liking me back, it's just he feels awkward about the whole thing i guess, i'm the first guy that's ever had an interest in him and vice/versa.
We're pretty close friends though regardless so it's kinda both our fault for it happening in the first place.

Well, I trust you know what you're doing, and you know the risks. I also don't have any place giving advice on matters like this. e.e;.

 

[Beast Penguin]

Aspettami

Afterlife remedy

i am still :/
and he is bi-curios.
personally i don't think he's straight at all based on how he acts towards me.
he's even admitted to liking me back, it's just he feels awkward about the whole thing i guess, i'm the first guy that's ever had an interest in him and vice/versa.
We're pretty close friends though regardless so it's kinda both our fault for it happening in the first place.

Well, I trust you know what you're doing, and you know the risks. I also don't have any place giving advice on matters like this. e.e;.

I do know what i'm doing for the most part.
I've gotten myself into some pretty sheisty situations before and i don't plan on letting that happen again  

[Zane Donovan]

only advice i can give is go for it  

[Aspettami]

Zane Donovan

only advice i can give is go for it

Even knowing that his curiosity might/will go away?

 

[Aspettami]

Afterlife remedy

I do know what i'm doing for the most part.
I've gotten myself into some pretty sheisty situations before and i don't plan on letting that happen again

I'm glad you're being smart about it. :'D
A lot of people rush into things and end up getting hurt. Which is always a shame.

 

[Zane Donovan]

Aspettami

Zane Donovan

only advice i can give is go for it

Even knowing that his curiosity might/will go away?

i dont mean just jump into the whole relationship i mean if he does show interest you dont need to just stop it all the two of them should talk about what this means and stuff like that.  

[Beast Penguin]

Aspettami

Afterlife remedy

I do know what i'm doing for the most part.
I've gotten myself into some pretty sheisty situations before and i don't plan on letting that happen again

I'm glad you're being smart about it. :'D
A lot of people rush into things and end up getting hurt. Which is always a shame.

thats pretty much exactly what happend to me before.
rushed, and hit a wall rock hard.
(metaphorically speaking)
don't wanna let that happen again. i'm better off alone than i would be going and risking it all.  

[Beast Penguin]

Zane Donovan

Aspettami

Zane Donovan

only advice i can give is go for it

Even knowing that his curiosity might/will go away?

i dont mean just jump into the whole relationship i mean if he does show interest you dont need to just stop it all the two of them should talk about what this means and stuff like that.

yea nothing hardcore has really happened between us yet but it's been over a year an we still feel the same about each other, it's just neither of us is sure what to do about it.