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 Posted: Sat Aug 08, 2009 5:55 pm
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Posted: Sat Aug 08, 2009 8:23 pm
I met my husband on Gaia, lol ninja
But I also was not Muslim when i met him....hrrm.. I am curious to what people say to this.
Keep in mind, there are a BILLION Muslim dating sites x3
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Call Me Apple Vice Captain
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Posted: Sat Aug 08, 2009 8:56 pm
Aww that's cute.
But I mean just as boyfriend/girlfriend. I hope some Muslims answer.
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Posted: Sun Aug 09, 2009 11:17 am
Eh... Well, having boyfriends/girlfriends is haram, as well as dating, as it loses self-respect. But I am not sure about online dating sites.
Cousin marriages occur, and marriages are ARRANGED by the parents as well as the woman/man who's getting married if they agree if the spouse would be a good husband/wife.
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Posted: Mon Aug 10, 2009 2:41 pm
Funny Yummy Cupcake Eh... Well, having boyfriends/girlfriends is haram, as well as dating, as it loses self-respect. But I am not sure about online dating sites. Cousin marriages occur, and marriages are ARRANGED by the parents as well as the woman/man who's getting married if they agree if the spouse would be a good husband/wife. Well I know someone who used the online Muslim dating thing, but her intention was purely to get married because she was a revert and her parents didn't know how to get her married... i think. But using the online dating thing, i think that you have to have an intention of getting married or else it would be the same as dating. Also, I don't think that arranged is a good way to describe the marriages because saying arranged makes it sound forced upon.
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Posted: Tue Aug 11, 2009 5:53 am
Agreed.
I do not like arranged marriages, nor will I ever agree to one. Unless...I am okay with the guy
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Posted: Wed Aug 12, 2009 6:56 am
Well, women place their names in Islamic magazines for marriage often, as I've seen.
There are also Islamic marriage websites as well. :p
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Posted: Wed Aug 12, 2009 5:30 pm
Yeah I saw one....
I was reading it out of boredom...
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Posted: Sat Aug 15, 2009 3:48 am
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Posted: Sat Aug 15, 2009 4:17 am
Juuri Kuran-952 Agreed.
I do not like arranged marriages, nor will I ever agree to one. Unless...I am okay with the guy Of course, there is nothing wrong with arranged marriages if the potential married couple both agree to it willingly. Consent is a prerequisite for marriage.
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Posted: Sat Aug 15, 2009 6:06 am
Relationships outside marriage with the opposite sex has a tendency to lead to Zinah, so it's better to keep away from them. As far as the dating sites are concerned, if the intention is solely for marriage, then I believe it's fine. However, I'm not really in favour of any of these matchmaking/dating sites even if they want to help people find good marriage proposals since the members might not be completely honest with the information they provide about themselves. Such a thing happened with an aunt of mine and now she is divorced.
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Posted: Sun Aug 16, 2009 10:26 am
Well I currently am dating a Muslim guy over the internet ( i met him in real life ) although it is discouraged to be dating all together.
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