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 Posted: Sat Aug 08, 2009 5:51 pm
I think it is. I've never done it, but that's what I've heard. It doesn't mention it in the Qu'ran though. Does it?
What I was wondering is if it's okay to have sexual feelings. Like to be horny. Is it ok to have dreams about having sex? It's hard to control these feelings especially since we are humans. It's only normal.
Also for boys, is it ok to have a wet dream?
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Posted: Sat Aug 08, 2009 7:18 pm
"i am a vessle of chasity,neither touched nor disturbed
 *sigh* many boys do that..even gays
i declare that i have not let him take my virginity"..
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Call Me Apple Vice Captain
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Posted: Sat Aug 08, 2009 8:20 pm
This is where Allah (swt) tests us, because he knows we're going to want to, but we need to have the discipline to restrain ourselves! It is a haram. "Allah is with those who restrain themselves."
(16:12 cool
"And those who guard their chastity (i.e. private parts, from illegal sexual acts). Except from their wives or (the captives and slaves) that their right hands possess, - for them, they are free from blame. But whoever seeks beyond that, then those are the transgressors."
(23:5-7)
I have also heard some people say "If there are only two options, but harmful, then one takes the lesser of the two harms to avoid the greater one." But...that says that people have no self control, which we DO have. And we try to live our life avoiding sinful behaviour. So...discipline yourself, if you feel 'horny' all the time, get a hobby >> Here is an article on Islam & Masturbation. On 'wet dreams', that is something the body does naturally. It in inward sexual tension, but he should not act on it.
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Posted: Sat Aug 08, 2009 8:55 pm
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Posted: Sun Aug 09, 2009 4:22 am
"i am a vessle of chasity,neither touched nor disturbed
ure question is is _____-
i declare that i have not let him take my virginity".
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Posted: Sun Aug 09, 2009 9:39 am
As long as you restrain yourself in order to not become dependent upon those carnal desires, I haven't read anything saying otherwise.
Keep in mind that, even if masturbating is not a sin, restraint is a virtue.
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Posted: Sun Aug 09, 2009 6:05 pm
Feeling horny is normal. You can have sexual thoughts and dreams as long as you don't act on them. 3nodding
As far as masturbation is concerned. I honestly don't know. It's not discussed in the Qur'an.
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Posted: Mon Aug 10, 2009 5:16 am
Litsen everyone please.
IT IS HARAM!
It is haram to view that stuff.
it is haram to do that stuff.
and if u feel that stuff u have to thake bath.
Cause as for boys, when it gets high, u produce some stuff... and when that stuff is produced u must clean ur secret places in wudhuu. ok?
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Posted: Mon Aug 10, 2009 11:29 am
@ Just_For_Dust
If you "think" it is Haram, say "I believe" and if you sure it is Haram then please tell us where in the Qur'an or Hadith to support your statement.
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Posted: Mon Aug 10, 2009 5:18 pm
waiting dear I think it is. I've never done it, but that's what I've heard. It doesn't mention it in the Qu'ran though. Does it? What I was wondering is if it's okay to have sexual feelings. Like to be horny. Is it ok to have dreams about having sex? It's hard to control these feelings especially since we are humans. It's only normal. Also for boys, is it ok to have a wet dream? Masturbation is haram b/c it's addictive, waste of a person's seed/time/money/effort and can distract them from their obligations in Islam. Sexual desires are normal but when they start getting real bad, marriage or fasting are prescribed. Some people need both which is alright. Dreams about sex are fine in Islam only if they are good and you are with your lawful spouse and that's all good. Anything beyond that, the Shaiytan are messing with you. And please dont tell those types of dreams or any bad dreams b/c they can be harmed by them. When a person is asleep, they are not held accountable for their actions or sayings b/c they may not be aware of what they are doing or saying. That's why Muslims are not suppose to go into prayer tired or sleepy. So if a person, man or woman, has a wet dream, they should not feel bad about it, b/c it's natural. Just take a ritual bath and make wuduu.
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Posted: Mon Aug 10, 2009 5:26 pm
Thanks for the helpful advice!
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Posted: Mon Aug 17, 2009 12:22 am
Although not Muslim, I would think so...and not only is it Haram, but often against the law as well. (not making that up btw)
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Posted: Mon Aug 17, 2009 6:27 pm
000SirCrocodile000 Although not Muslim, I would think so...and not only is it Haram, but often against the law as well. (not making that up btw) Really? surprised I didn't know that. Can you list some examples?
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Posted: Mon Aug 17, 2009 7:40 pm
RubyLight 000SirCrocodile000 Although not Muslim, I would think so...and not only is it Haram, but often against the law as well. (not making that up btw) Really? surprised I didn't know that. Can you list some examples? Actually anything that can be viewed by the public, or outside the home, so I guess mostly public masterbation is of course not accepted..but it would be very hard to actually prove in court that from the privacy of one's own home someone broke the law. As far as I can see it's a law not specifically put in black and white. I guess it would depend on the situation.
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Call Me Apple Vice Captain
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Posted: Mon Aug 17, 2009 7:44 pm
RubyLight 000SirCrocodile000 Although not Muslim, I would think so...and not only is it Haram, but often against the law as well. (not making that up btw) Really? surprised I didn't know that. Can you list some examples? I know that oral sex is illegal in Georgia and some other states rofl http://www.journalism.sfsu.edu/flux/gSpot/sexLaw.html
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