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 Posted: Tue Oct 28, 2008 11:37 am
Sitting in this room playing Russian Roulette,
Finger on the trigger to my dear Juliet.
Blah. My older brother's friend Jacob bothers the hell out of me. -.- He's always hugging me and picking me up and s**t. He'll just smash my door open and be like HI DRACO DID I SCARE YOU!? : DDD He's always invading my personal space. Like, he puts his face in my hair and stuff and whispers to me. It creeps me out.
Usually, I have no personal boundaries. Me and my best friend have virtually no 'personal bubbles' when we're around each other. We'll be walking, and she'll grab my butt for no reason. It's all cool. But even when Jacob hugs me, I can't help but feel violated. >.o I ninja through the house so he doesn't hear me. I put my laundry basket in front of my door so he can't open it. I went without breakfast until 1:30 today trying to stay away from him.
What do you think I should do? Basically, what I've been doing is when he comes into my room, I give him the cold shoulder and tell him I'm busy and if he doesn't need something to GO. AWAY. So essentially, I'm just being mean to him, but he's like a puppy in the way that he doesn't understand something unless it's pounded into him. What do you think?
Out from the window see her backdrop silhouette;
This blood on my hands is something I cannot forget.
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Posted: Thu Oct 30, 2008 10:51 pm
Well...for the most part you can try some good ol' classical conditioning if you are interested. Every time you and him come into close contact you can do something painful, like punch him in the gut, sack tap him, beat him over the head with a stick. Whatever it is it forces negativity when you are around. At the time he has conditioned that around you there is random happiness and possibly attraction, and thus to teach him otherwise you must treat him like a dog by giving him different sensations when you are around. You can even use food if you believe, make some real nasty things and offer to him every time he is around and be truly forceful about it and then he is forced to that terrible taste every time he has to hang with you and will really...not want to. Other than that you could just hand out simple punishment and put the beatdown on him in a serious way one time over. Talking can work as well, but I am assuming you have tried this already so do what you must comrade. It's all you can do.
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Posted: Fri Oct 31, 2008 6:51 pm
Pain works. Pain works well. Or... fake him out and go along with it. Perhaps he knows you're freaked out even if you don't show it. He might like, feed off of your misery, and do those things just to creep you out. If you didn't react the way he wanted to, then he'd stop.
The issue is finding out how he would want you to react. :/ But I digress... There's my advice heed it well. Perhaps you'll find it useful, perhaps not.
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Posted: Fri Nov 07, 2008 4:48 pm
Lol oh the way he teases you. Or maybe he has an interest in you? Anyway, try to creep him out back by doing the same thing he does. But make sure it doesn't go too far.
Pain is a wonderful method. Alas, it's not the best method.
Another option is to try to talk to him. Get to know why he does those things. Logic, man. It's very useful. smile
You and friend sound so awesome.
"Oh look! A squirrel!!"
"Huh? Where?"
"*pinch yo a***"
.... Yeah...
Anyway, the things he does to you sound so weird, yet so cute and funny at the same time. xD
Sorry. Anyway, try any of the listed options above. Good luck and inform me where this thing goes.
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Posted: Thu May 21, 2009 1:41 am
ooh ive never felt the side of the guy being chased.... only the pity for the guy doing the chasing... im pretty positive this is real life and won't end like in mangas do (i.e. okane ga nai, junjou romantica, etc.)
i apologize if this hurts your feelings redface emo
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Posted: Mon Jun 08, 2009 11:51 am
They say ‘freak’ when you’re singled out.
Thanks guys. He's actually moved to New York now, so he doesn't come around anymore. :] I believe someone mentioned an interest in me. Well, last I checked, Jacob isn't gay or bi. And he has a girlfriend. I really don't think he has an interest in me, even though it feels like it sometimes.
@iOtaku: Yeah. This isn't a manga. I'm not pushing him away because Oh, I love you, BUT I CANNOT EXPRESS IT *ukeukeuke*. This isn't a romantic scenario at all. He just honestly makes me feel violated. You should pity him because I'm such an a*****e to him. :]
The red. Well, it filters through.
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