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 Posted: Mon May 05, 2008 3:51 pm
ok so there's this guy on my bus, and in my gym class thats so freakin hot, and nice, and i am totally obssesed with him. like he borrowed my friends pencil in math, and it's now my lucky pencil, thats how bad its got. problem is, im a band geek [duh] and he's sort of preppy. i want him soooo much but i don't know what to do. im not even sue that he knows my name. i practically hypervenilate when he's near me. but there's no way he will ever want me back. what do i do? i can't accept it and move on... crying
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Posted: Mon May 05, 2008 6:03 pm
Become friends with him first. Hopefully you two have some things in common and maybe he will like you. Worked for me.
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Posted: Mon May 05, 2008 6:27 pm
*sends mighty hug of sympathy* I feel your pain! crying
1. Figure out his name. Even if it involves blackmail, torture, ect. There's no worse first impression than using the wrong name.
2. DO. NOT. CHANGE. YOURSELF! Cliche, but changing yourself for a guy really hurts. Personal experience there.
3. Like Kirei said, get to know him, maybe become friends if you can. I don't know if this works, but it sounds viable.
Good luck! *sends heart-shaped luck* heart heart
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Posted: Mon May 12, 2008 7:39 am
I've definitely been in a similar situation...
Try to get to know him. You can go a little out of your way to talk to him. Try to stay relaxed when you're around him. Good luck!
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Posted: Sat May 17, 2008 3:19 pm
if you need something to distract you from his awsomeness, think about what a fuzzy bunny would do to try to peel a banana! it works when im trying to calm down!!
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Posted: Thu Jun 12, 2008 9:17 am
Just work on taking deep breaths. Do your best to relax, and talking to him will be easier...
But at least your situation is better than mine! >.<
I have crushes on three different kids.
All three are in band
All three will be in my band class next year
There are two trombones (call them #1 and #2 for now), and one trumpet:
Trombone #1 = in my grade, in my section, best friends with Trumpet, in jazz band with me
Trombone #2 = one grade ahead, in my section, in marching band with me
Trumpet = in my grade, best friends with Trombone #1, in jazz band with me
I hang out with all three on a regular basis, and am trying to determine if they like me at all, but I don't know!!! gonk
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Posted: Fri Jun 13, 2008 12:52 pm
what everyone has said is true. if u relax u will have an easier time talking to him. and getting to know him and be friends is a great way to start things off. oh and guardian im in a simlar situation now with 3 different ppl (one happens to be my gf right now).
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Posted: Mon Jun 23, 2008 9:11 am
Just relax, be yourself, and have fun when you're around him. Good luck!
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Posted: Wed Jun 25, 2008 3:53 pm
AoiMakura ok so there's this guy on my bus, and in my gym class thats so freakin hot, and nice, and i am totally obssesed with him. like he borrowed my friends pencil in math, and it's now my lucky pencil, thats how bad its got. problem is, im a band geek [duh] and he's sort of preppy. i want him soooo much but i don't know what to do. im not even sue that he knows my name. i practically hypervenilate when he's near me. but there's no way he will ever want me back. what do i do? i can't accept it and move on... crying OMGG! im in the same situation!!! though he is more rocker..and im more preppy... i finally decide to talk to him and its the last day of school...
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Posted: Thu Jul 03, 2008 6:59 am
You will probably get frustrated at me for saying this, but he is just a person. You have to understand that. When you do, talking to him will be easier. And befriending him would be the best step as said before by some. Being someone's friend first lets you really get to know them and understand their personality type....With my luck after I get to know them, I no longer like them more than a friend because they are not what they seem to be when you do not know them...
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