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How do you feel about being with transgender (FTM) guys?

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Zack_the_Wolf

PostPosted: Fri Jan 29, 2010 1:03 pm
Being that I'm transgender (FTM) and gay myself, I'm curious how the guys I like would feel about sleeping with me (I'm not asking YOU to, just wonder how you feel in general). I'm on Testosterone, so it's kindda like going through a faster male puberty. But I still have... the extra stuff on top, and nothing on bottom (we usually wear "packies" for general wear, and can use harnesses for... ^_~).

So um... yeah.

And how would you like someone to tell you "hey, I'm TG. I don't have the parts, but I'm a man at heart?"

I'm happy to answer any questions about being ftm that might help answer my own question. Just please be nice? ^^;
Thank you!  
PostPosted: Fri Jan 29, 2010 1:21 pm
One of my really good friends is also FtM, and we've talked about this kinda stuff before.

I probably wouldn't mind, to an extent. I'd be a little uncomfortable with the fact that you had breasts (even if you were wearing a binder) but really, as long as you look enough like a guy - as in, you don't just look like a girl in guy's clothing - then it wouldn't be a big deal. I focus on personality over appearances anyway.

And you probably already knew, but there are guys who are actually attracted exclusively (or near-exclusively) to transgender people; I've met a few.
 

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Zack_the_Wolf

PostPosted: Fri Jan 29, 2010 1:44 pm
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One of my really good friends is also FtM, and we've talked about this kinda stuff before.

I probably wouldn't mind, to an extent. I'd be a little uncomfortable with the fact that you had breasts (even if you were wearing a binder) but really, as long as you look enough like a guy - as in, you don't just look like a girl in guy's clothing - then it wouldn't be a big deal. I focus on personality over appearances anyway.

And you probably already knew, but there are guys who are actually attracted exclusively (or near-exclusively) to transgender people; I've met a few.


^^ that's cool!
What about just for like... hookup from a bar or something?

I'd rather keep my shirt on until I get my chesticles removed X3  
PostPosted: Sat Jan 30, 2010 12:08 pm
Well I don't really do random hookups or anything like that, with anyone =P
 

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Zack_the_Wolf

PostPosted: Mon Feb 01, 2010 10:40 am
Anyone else wanna comment? *_*  
PostPosted: Thu Feb 11, 2010 9:37 am
If I saw you at a bar I'd probably be to drunk to notice, or care.  

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PostPosted: Tue Feb 23, 2010 6:15 pm
I wouldnt sleep with a transgender.
I dont mind if youre transgender, but I just cant be sexually attracted to someone with breasts or a v****a.  
PostPosted: Mon May 17, 2010 7:18 pm
Eh, if im atracted to the body idc about parts  

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PostPosted: Wed Mar 28, 2012 9:33 pm
I really don't mind. I have a BFF who's a transgender. We really don't care what we look like just how your react to situations like this. I really doesn't bother me with stuff like that. We got 'fixed' in 5th grade. We had to look at puberty pictures. And trust me. The groups were not gender selected. So the girls all had to learn about the *shudder* thing. We had pictures too. Someone had to demonstrate. sweatdrop It wasn't me. I still remember their names. So I saw 'it' in 5th grade. Not such an amazing experience.  
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