Sex vs. Fingering

[xXDepressedEmo69Xx]

I am currently a first semester freshman in college. I met a guy here and we got to know each other for about a month or so. I let him take my virginity, and so far this semester we've had sex three times.

My problem is that he wants to finger me, but when he does it hurts a lot because I only masturbate by stimulating my c**t. However, I tolerate having sex with him more because I make him stop when he fingers me. I've even let him finger me in my a**s, which oddly to me doesn't even hurt as much. Is this weird? What can I do to make this easier. I've also never been able to climax during sex at all? What could we be doing wrong?  

[LorienLlewellyn]

It could be painful because he is being too rough, because you are nervous and tensed up, because you are too dry, or because his nails are too long. Talk to him about it and try a lubricant.

It's common to not orgasm your first few times having sex. It doesn't mean that you're doing anything wrong. Your first few times you're often a little nervous and a little unsure of what works for you and what doesn't. Talk to your partner. Tell him what feels good and what doesn't. Experiment with different positions. And don't rush yourself. If you try to force it, that makes it even less likely to happen.