AAAAAAH i CANT BELIEVE THIS. STUPID BOY

[steamyhottwaffle]

Ok, so usually i know how to fix my relationships, and i am usually the one people come to for advice, but im stuck.

Ive been daiting this kid for almost a year now, and before this like 2 years ago we were daiting for a year and it got broken up by some girl, whatever you know?

So we are back together and we've been fine up until right after his birthday in april. then we start fighting more, he's not really talking to me, he starts arguing with one of my best friends who is like a little sister to me. I mean he still does the cute stuff sometimes, like he texted me @ midnight of our annv. of first meeting, and that makes me happy he remembered.

But i havent talked to him in over a week. I text, call, email. the sad thing is ive talked to his best friend a lot, and his best friend doesnt understand either. Things were ok i guess but idk. I know there cant be something wrong with me because im me, there cant be something wrong with someone who is comfortable with themself and accepts all right?

WHAT DO I DO?

Im leaving for a week to go on a cruise with my family and i want to talk to him again before that and just be with him, and im scared that this is his way of slowly backing off to break up with me and i dont know what to do.
Can anyone help me???

 

[m0rgzilla]

Holy sh!t;
I have no clue what to do! D;  

[Pandah P O P]

Oh god, he sounds so confusing.

He sounds kind of..moody right now, though. o__O; I've never been in a relationship, but that's what I call "men's period." (I made it a joke..but no guy gets it because they've never heard of a period being a monthly gift.)

I honestly don't think you should take my suggestion, I don't want you to mess up or something. XD
It kind of sounds like you're trying to dig to the bottom. Like, just try to not think about him or contact him? I know it drives girl's nuts but. >w<;

And then call him, text or email.
Just not as much. XD

I'm sorry I couldn't help. D: I suck. >.>;

 

[HaloV]

I would just try to find a way to talk to him and find out what's going on. That's the only way to get to the root of it all.

 

[steamyhottwaffle]

Thanks guys, that kinda helped lol.

Its just so hard when you feel ignored xD

 

[Nibbs-chan]

I've been in this situation.

Give him some space. He might be going through something. My ex did the same thing to me and yes it hurts bad. Spaace is the only thing that'll fix a problem that you don't know what its about.

 

[steamyhottwaffle]

It would just be easier if he just told me that, instead of me sitting here thinking the worst of him.

 

[Pandah P O P]

Yeah, I know. D;
And it is hard being ignored. XD It hurts.

But usually guys don't really like talking about things like that..? Unless they're that kind of person, I mean. >.>;

 

[steamyhottwaffle]

Ok so just an update its been another week and ive still not heard anything from him. Its just weird. I went on a cruise for a week, and everywhere i went i was reminded that i was alone. All the people i saw were part of a couple and it just didnt feel so good.


so yeah thats my little update

 

[girls n boys]

I don't know.
Good luck to you though...
Things work themselves out.
Eventually.  

[Queen Deli]

i also have no clue wat to do