When did you realize? Another serious discussion topic! XD

[Medochan]

My story is a bit funny, a bit sad, and all true.

I only just came to the wonderful realization that I identify as a lesbian on November 21, 2009. Yes, less than a month ago.

The story is extremely long, and spans two generations, if you want the full story, PM me. ^_^

Anyway, so yeah. I identified as 'Bi-curious' for most of high school, simply because of my adopted parents' strict religious home setting, and they didn't know about it until they accidentally found out about a girlfriend I had.

And then I got to college. Here at college, I was extremely open about being 'Bi-sexual', when at the LGBT History Kick-Off ((that would be October, ya'll)) when I met Lee.

Lee is an amazing genderf***. They identify as neither male nor female, which can lead to some awkward use of really crappy pronouns, but Lee is amazing. While hanging out with Lee, who is biologically female, I was able to meet a lot of people I had no idea existed before, except online. Lee was able to help me realize that I identify as a lesbian, and I have been happy, though tense, for a blissful two months with Lee now. While it may seem very rushed, I have been talking to former high school friends, and almost all of them said 'well, duh.' And my brother even realized my tendencies back in high school, when he asked me why I dated guys who were more 'feminine' than myself.

I am not, however, a 'butch' or a 'femme'. I'm a Melody, my real name feel honored, and I am 'Leezbain'. It's a small joke of my lover and I, but we are blissfully happy and life couldn't make more sense.

While this all seems rushed, it really is the the open expression of what has been going on in the recessives of my mind for years.

Sorry this is long, I am very much into eloquent speeches.  

[Demoness Kalanah]

I realized i wasnt a boy when i was around 4, give or take and couple weeks, i liked what girls liked, but i was too afraid to show it so i hid it all until i was 17, worst mistake i ever made was not telling anyone but now im almost a complete woman  

[EpicLuMule]

I first realized i was differentThe summer before 6th grade my best friend started to hit on me while we were swimming in her pool, and we eventualy ended up nekkid in the pool "switching our suits" and when we went in side we "experimented a little bit' but i was the sheltered child that didnt know s**t about any thing so we actualy were so close to pretty much scissoring and i was all " wait...cant we get prego from this"(yes i was that much of a sheltered child.......) and that was the first time i noticed i was okay with it. and then the summer after 6th grade i realized i liked girls a little more than i was attracted to guys, and then finaly about 8th grade i went to a halloween party with my Bestie and met my first girlfriend,(which i live to regret how much time i wasted on her) and then thats just the begining of it.

(Note- Im in 11th now....)  

[jerkin aint died]

when i first realized that i was bi was this year when i turned 15, well i new for a long time but i never really new what it was. the only person that i came out to so far was one of my best friends ariana and i guess she accepted me for who i am cause she is still talkin to me and everything but then she was telling me that she was thinkin of turning bi and i was like eek i kissed my boyfriend who is now my ex for the first time last year in 9th grade and i have kissed a girl but i have never had a girlfriend (i do have some bi friends but i have not told them yet) yet but i really do want one sad  

[LORD SlN]

titanic... ironic i know.. but yeah... it was the first time i show a naked woman's body other than my mothers... i was 4 years old.. that is the one memory that i will always remember... feeling weird that i loved how the female body looked and then worried that my mother saw me checking out some actress's body lol