Hello...
I know that this is going to sound lame, but I have been worried if I am the type of guy who a girl would ever consider dating. I'm going to describe myself as honestly as possible, and then I'd like to know if I sound like it would ever be possible for me to find a girlfriend.
Personality : I always try to make everyone around me feel as comfortable and happy as possible. I am also very sensitive to what is proper and appropriate in dealing with others, and I always try to speak or act without offending anyone. I'd also describe myself as sweet, since I hear people call me that a lot. I really like jokes and funny stuff, but I'm not sure how funny I am myself. All of my family members are funny, and they call me funny, too, but I don't know if I'm as funny as they are, but I don't think that I'm a boring person. I'm shy in some situations, but outgoing in others. I often have romantic daydreams and think of romantic things to say, so I guess I could describe myself as a romantic guy. I try my very best to be respectable and a gentleman. I know how attractive confidence is, but, sadly, I have to admit that I don't have much of it.
sweatdrop If I did have a girlfriend though, I would feel like I was on top of the world, and be WAY more confident. I would say that I am a pretty understanding guy. I always try to see things from other people's perspectives, I am open-minded to lots of different things, like the beliefs of others, and I am tolerant of lots of different types of people. I'm not very judgmental at all. I'm honest, but I take care not to hurt anyone with honesty. I really like affection, both showing and giving it. I'm not competitive by nature, but if my girlfriend wanted me to compete with her at something, I would if she wanted me to. I'm not a neat freak, but I do like things clean. I don't usually prefer to leave my house (Although, of course, if my girlfriend wanted to, then I would be fine with it). I am willing to try new things. I'm not sure what I want from life. I'm a pretty independent guy; if a girl wanted to play mother and care for me, though, I would be fine with that.
How I would treat my girlfriend : Like a goddess! Well, if it bothered her to be pampered, then I would back off. But, if I had a girlfriend, I would want to keep her as happy as possible. I'd love to do things for her like hold open the door for her when she walks into a building, or pull out a chair for her when she sat down. I'd always ask how her day had been. I would NEVER cheat on her. I like to play video games, but I wouldn't ignore my girlfriend while I played; she would always get more attention than anything else. If she needed help with anything at all, I would help her. I would always be supportive of her and anything she chose to do. I'd listen intently to anything she had to say, and I would be open with her, as well. I wouldn't have a problem at all with doing simple romantic things, like just laying in the grass at a park, and pointing out clouds and saying what they look like. I would stand up for her. I would respect her, both her values and her boundaries, and treat her as an equal. I would NOT see her as a sex object, or ornament, or dumping ground. I could NEVER 'use' a girl or be a 'playa'.
sweatdrop I hope this doesn't sound like I am the type of guy who changes himself to please other people, but I would be perfectly willing to compromise and improve so that I live up to her expectations. I would show that I love her in every sweet way I could think of. I would want her to feel like she could be herself around me. She wouldn't have to wear makeup or change her appearance for me. I would be sad to have to give her time to just be alone, but I would give it to her. If she had male best friends, I would feel awful when she hugged them or told them that they loved them, but I would not treat my girlfriend badly because of it. This may sound like a lie, but I wouldn't even look at other girls if I had a girlfriend. Also, I wouldn't have a problem with calling her frequently if she wanted me to.
Physical Description : I am 16 years old, 5"10' tall, and weigh 135 pounds. I think I look pretty skinny. I work out, but I don't think it really shows. I might actually be burning muscle rather than building it.
sweatdrop I'm not very athletic, and I'm not sure if I'm strong. I suppose I'm lacking in this area...Still, I would say that I am healthy.
Spirituality : Erm, I was baptized a Catholic, but I do not consider myself to be a very religious person. Sometimes I feel like I am an Agnostic - like I don't know if there is or isn't a God. Most of the time I don't even think about that stuff. It never played a large role in my life. However, I do have an inner set of beliefs by how I operate. I would
really hope that my girlfriend wouldn't make me convert to her religion.
Financial Security : I think I have good budgeting skills. I usually only spend money on very important things. I don't have a job at the moment, but if I had a girlfriend, then I would definitely aim for a job that would let me support her.
Sexual Appetite : I would NEVER demand ANYTHING sexual from her, or make her do ANYTHING that she didn't want to. If it would be fine by her, I would be content with just holding hands, or just holding each other, or cuddling up and snuggling somewhere, and occasionally sharing soft kisses. Of course, I would also be up to it if my girlfriend wanted to make out, or even go beyond that.
Doing Drugs / Smoking / Drinking : I don't do any of those things, and I don't really want to.
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I know that the one thing that it does NOT look like I have from this post is modesty, but it was only so that I could be honest and let everyone know about me so I could find out if I am boyfriend material or not. I guess as a final note I should say that I didn't mean for this topic to be a dating service, I just wanted to know if I had a chance of ever finding a girlfriend...
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