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Welcome to Security Blanket, a guild devoted to the support, and help for victims of Domestice Abuse, Rape, Assault, Harrassment, Traumatic Experiences, and other related experiences. We are very trusting of our members, but not forgiving of trolls, 'n00bs', spammers, or those who encourage suicide, self harm, or the harming of others.
We realize that you may often be reluctant to share your past experiences, but rest assured, our Private Policy states that we will not share this information with anyone outside the guild without your consent.
We also realize that you may be reluctant to join, because you may feel your abuse is not harmful enough to require help, when in fact all abuse of any sort is too much. Abuse is a horrible thing in any form, and we will not judge by the degree of your abuse.
Some types of abuse we deal with are
-Physical
-Emotional
-Mental/Psychological
-Sexual
If any experience involving rape, or sex without consent has occurred in your life, and you're embarassed, or afraid to tell us publicly, don't be afraid to send a Personal Message to any Staff Member, or any member willing to offer assisstance. Rape can often be very frightening, and traumatizing, and we're here to help you get through it.
Again, we here at Security Blanket are very accepting, and trusting of one another, but very intolerant of trolls, spammers, 'n00bs', and those who encourage suicide/self harming/harming of others.
It's a guild for people just like you, or I, but it's main purpose is to offer solace to those who've been victims of abuse, rape, etc. We're not a religious guild, but are VERY tolerant, and support religious freedom. We're not some sort of charity guild, or hangout guild. There IS a Hangout section located in the guild, but outside of that, this is a serious guild, and should be handled as so. But please don't think of us as some sort of military-strict guild. We're very lenient in our judgment, and will offer warnings before banning or suspension. The rules are very simple to follow, so conformity isn't required, either. So in short, Security Blanket is a place you know you'll always be safe at.
Most certainly not! Security Blanket isn't just about discussing your problems, and helping others, it's about just having fun with fellow members. Though we currently only have one subforum, you can bet that as the members accumulate we'll be growing in size. When that happens, it means more subforums, more diversity, and maybe in guild contests? You never know. So please don't assume that just because we've gone though some tough times in our lives that we're about to let it get to us!
This guild is not for everyone. The cruel, and unkind are not welcome here, as well as anyone who wishes harm unto anyone else. You might consider joining to help talk out your problems with members in the guild, or guild staff. If you're homosexual, or bisexual, and are victim of persecution, this guild offers a non-prejudice, accepting environment for you. If you've never been victim of any abuse to speak of, maybe you might want to join to help others, and be a good person in general. Maybe you're simply the kind of person that enjoys talking to people, and have a contageous smile. Whatever the case may be, you are welcome to join here. We're waiting for you.
Not at all. Abuse, as said earlier, comes in many forms. Physical abuse is simply the only form of abuse that leaves physical scars. Mental or Emotional abuse victims are just as affected, because continued abuse can cause depression, or even suicidal tendencies. Here at Security Blanket, we try to prevent this from happening. Sexual abuse, as well. It may not necessarily leave physical scars, but it can have a deep emotional, or mental impact. A feel of worthlessness can easily spawn from sexual abuse. Rape, also can induce, even amplify these feelings and bring on suicidal tendencies, and feelings of inferiority. Physical abuse is not the only kind of abuse, and we are accepting of victims of all types.
Abuse doesn't target one gender. It can occur with both genders, and there's no shame in admitting it. Although it is less commonly reported, abuse with males is still common. A domestic abuse case is called "Domestic Abuse". Not "Wife Abuse". Not "Husband Abuse". In this day, and age, equality is a virtue, and we welcome males just as quickly as females.
There is no shame in being raped. There is only shame in forcing another. Being a victim of rape does not make you a whore. It does not make you a slut, and it certainly does not make it your fault. Despite what some people think, or are told, rape is NEVER the victim's fault. Rape is one of the most difficult things to get over, and here at Security Blanket, we can help you overcome this one step at a time, without you having to fear you'll be judged in any way. Security Blanket welcomes you with open arms, and our cast of friendly members, and friendly staff will do all they can to help you overcome this tribulation. Rape can often be a catalyst to suicide... Don't let that happen to you.
You're never alone. That's one of the first things you'll learn in this guild. Not only is this guild composed of members who want to help you, the very same members may have very well suffered similar abuse. Just because your friends, or associates are not victims of abuse does not mean you're alone. But please try not to overexaggerate the circumstance. Yes, abuse or rape is a horrible thing to have to go through, but it's not necessary to have the sort of attitude saying "My father hits me, and my mother yells at me. No one has it as hard as I do." Because this attitude is inconsiderate. In the road or life, no one deserves to walk alone.
Simple Be a good person. Be kind to those who ask for solace, or ask for a listening ear. This is expected of anyone who joins this guild, but it is also commended if the expectations are met. You can help by talking to people who are dealing with problems. Offering to be there for them is the best way to help someone sometimes. Anyone can say "I'm sorry for your loss." but maybe it's time you made a difference and said to someone, "Hey, let's talk about this together."
We are Security Blanket, and we're here for you.
SAFE - Support for victims of Abusive Family Environments
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