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| What's your zodiac sign? Go to post | 344 | General Discussion |
Thu Nov 15, 2007 2:31 am |
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My birthday is November 19th I'm a scorpio but my fiance is a Taurus and we've been together almost eight years now. My son is a Leo, mother is a Leo, father is a Taurus.
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| I can't stand Hot Topic. Go to post | 235 | General Discussion |
Thu Nov 15, 2007 2:21 am |
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I only buy an ocassional Nightmare before Christmas item from there. I'm a collector though.
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| are declawed cats meaner? Go to post | 32 | General Discussion |
Wed Nov 14, 2007 4:42 am |
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I had two declawed cats when I was younger and neither one of them as mean at all.
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| DO I LOOK LIKE A NOOB? Go to post | 69 | General Discussion |
Fri Nov 09, 2007 11:24 pm |
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You look more like a moron to me.
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| it's my birthday! :D Go to post | 15 | General Discussion |
Thu Nov 08, 2007 12:56 pm |
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Happy birthday. Birthday parties suck.
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| Anyone else on here older than 20? Go to post | 168 | General Discussion |
Thu Nov 08, 2007 12:44 pm |
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I'll be the big 23 on the 19th.
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| My boyfriend likes porn. Go to post | 290 | General Discussion |
Thu Nov 08, 2007 3:34 am |
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Scruffdog WytherWyskers Scruffdog WytherWyskers Scruffdog WytherWyskers There you go again. Thinking you speak for everyone else when in actuality you don't. I've heard several men say they find porn degrading and disgusting. No, they aren't sexually dysfunctional or anything of the sort. They just don't like it. Why is that so hard for you to fathom? as in anything i speak for the majority in this case, men like porn, there are the few who dont thank you for correcting me but again. MAJORITY of guys are exactly like me in this case. THANK YOU. I just hate when the world all is used instead of most. It irritates me to no end. I agree that most men do like porn and I have no problem with that because I am not with most men so therefore it doesn't affect me emotionally. I think it's perfectly fine for guys in a relationship to look at porn is their significant other is comfortable in their doing so. I just find it wrong if it makes he/she feel uncomfortable and the one looking at porn should evaluate their relationship with that person and put their feelings into consideration as well. Relationship are about sacrifice sometimes. In all honesty both men and women (the majority anyhow) have accidentally or intentionally come across porn. While some may have been curious and aroused their curiosity further, some may never intentionally go looking for it. Thats true, but likely hood that someone would go their entire life without ever looking at porn of anytype is pretty unlikely. Curiousity Killed the Cat. Everyone hears about porn, its on the news a lot in bad cases its very hush hushed yet its everywhere. Theres a voice in the back of your head that worries abit everytime you go to a search engine to look for something, unless you are looking for porn. Eventually you will go looking unless you accidently come acrossed it but even accidently coming acrossed it is enough to sooth most peoples curiousity. I agree. |
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| My boyfriend likes porn. Go to post | 290 | General Discussion |
Thu Nov 08, 2007 3:28 am |
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Scruffdog WytherWyskers Scruffdog WytherWyskers Scruffdog WytherWyskers Yet it's perfectly acceptable for you to group all guys together into the same way of thinking as yourself? I don't see how that works.... have you seen one guy saying porn is bad, nope. Im a nice guy, who knows alot of nice guys. i dont walk over girls nor do i throw a girl away with condom. infact most men want to be in a normal relationship. its much easier to quote bad things and think bad about something than it is to say good. Im majoring in phsyc and lemme tell ya we have done alot of test on guys and girls. and every one i have done has come back that guys like porn, guys like sex, and guys want to be with one girl. for the most part. there are the few bad eggs, there are the highschool movies that paint these stereotypes. but to be perfectly honest. yes its okay to say something like every guy likes porn, they are curious about sex, different positions and so forth. porn gives you the research you want. even if you are religious or anything, you are at least interested a bit. which means you will look. There you go again. Thinking you speak for everyone else when in actuality you don't. I've heard several men say they find porn degrading and disgusting. No, they aren't sexually dysfunctional or anything of the sort. They just don't like it. Why is that so hard for you to fathom? as in anything i speak for the majority in this case, men like porn, there are the few who dont thank you for correcting me but again. MAJORITY of guys are exactly like me in this case. THANK YOU. I just hate when the world all is used instead of most. It irritates me to no end. I agree that most men do like porn and I have no problem with that because I am not with most men so therefore it doesn't affect me emotionally. I think it's perfectly fine for guys in a relationship to look at porn is their significant other is comfortable in their doing so. I just find it wrong if it makes he/she feel uncomfortable and the one looking at porn should evaluate their relationship with that person and put their feelings into consideration as well. Relationship are about sacrifice sometimes. In all honesty both men and women (the majority anyhow) have accidentally or intentionally come across porn. While some may have been curious and aroused their curiosity further, some may never intentionally go looking for it. |
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| My boyfriend likes porn. Go to post | 290 | General Discussion |
Thu Nov 08, 2007 3:26 am |
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Scruffdog WytherWyskers Scruffdog WytherWyskers Scruffdog its sad but true even if porn isnt "fun" for all it is at least his choice which you should respect if you care about them. Why should someone respect when they aren't getting respect in return? Porn isnt disrespectful at all. Are you attracted to some star of some sort. Brad Pitt, Johnny Depp or so forth? or do you ever talk to your girlfriends about a hot guy, even if its just to fit in? There are numerous ways to be attracted to someone aside from sexually. You still haven't thrown out a valid point to reiterate how porn isn't disrespectful if it's causing turmoil in a long term relationship. Lets say we are married, and all i want you to do is sit inside the house and do "wifely" chours. Now your against that im sure, so you'd speak out against that. that is a problem. but a guy watching porn is disrespectful to her only because she is afraid of losing him to a video. she shouldnt fear losing him to a video because hes still with her. shes not respecting him by trying to understand, she says shes jealous. she fears that he thinks the girls are prettier or more attractive, and thus hes going to be thinking about a porn where he saw two other people having sex, instead of being in the moment of having sex with her. I doubt that, porn is a something you use when you cant have sex, why would he think about it when he is having sex. secondly its disrespectful to just assume hes going to do that, to assume he doesnt care enough about you to want to be with you, but instead hes going to use you to pretend hes withsomeone else. thats pretty disrespectful. Actually, I wouldn't mind being a stay at home wife. It would be nice for a change. But I'm saying not all women think that porn is disrespectful because the women on the film are supposedly more attractive than she is, it may be numerous other reasons. Perhaps past sexual abuse. Maybe she flat out finds it in bad taste or disgusting. Or maybe she feels that his desire to gratify himself while looking at other women will stem off into something more. Maybe he will go off and look for other women as well? |
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| My boyfriend likes porn. Go to post | 290 | General Discussion |
Thu Nov 08, 2007 3:20 am |
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Scruffdog WytherWyskers Scruffdog WytherWyskers Scruffdog SugarSmacks24 I dont think your making to big a deal. I mean guys pretty much think that they can walk all over girls and do what they want. Tell how you feel and go from there. your grouping all the guys in a highschool jock type stereotype. its nice oprah does the same thing Yet it's perfectly acceptable for you to group all guys together into the same way of thinking as yourself? I don't see how that works.... have you seen one guy saying porn is bad, nope. Im a nice guy, who knows alot of nice guys. i dont walk over girls nor do i throw a girl away with condom. infact most men want to be in a normal relationship. its much easier to quote bad things and think bad about something than it is to say good. Im majoring in phsyc and lemme tell ya we have done alot of test on guys and girls. and every one i have done has come back that guys like porn, guys like sex, and guys want to be with one girl. for the most part. there are the few bad eggs, there are the highschool movies that paint these stereotypes. but to be perfectly honest. yes its okay to say something like every guy likes porn, they are curious about sex, different positions and so forth. porn gives you the research you want. even if you are religious or anything, you are at least interested a bit. which means you will look. There you go again. Thinking you speak for everyone else when in actuality you don't. I've heard several men say they find porn degrading and disgusting. No, they aren't sexually dysfunctional or anything of the sort. They just don't like it. Why is that so hard for you to fathom? as in anything i speak for the majority in this case, men like porn, there are the few who dont thank you for correcting me but again. MAJORITY of guys are exactly like me in this case. THANK YOU. I just hate when the world all is used instead of most. It irritates me to no end. I agree that most men do like porn and I have no problem with that because I am not with most men so therefore it doesn't affect me emotionally. I think it's perfectly fine for guys in a relationship to look at porn is their significant other is comfortable in their doing so. I just find it wrong if it makes he/she feel uncomfortable and the one looking at porn should evaluate their relationship with that person and put their feelings into consideration as well. Relationship are about sacrifice sometimes. |
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