Love Problem

[Xylonyx]

Hey y'all Gaians!

I know I may be overeacting and asking people online for help, but I wanna see how it works. Here's the story:

Each time I like a girl, I was only pretending. I was stupid back then and I used to think pretending to like people attract popularity. But then, I happen to like someone. This time, I wasn't pretending. I actually never felt this way. I told the girl I liked her, but I know she is taken. She is so devoted to her boyfriend and I wish I could feel that kind of happiness. I want to be happy. But the only way for me to be happy is for that girl to date me. I know its not going to happen. And I even danced with her, I gave her a Valentines Day card, and I told her how I feel. Still, its not working. She only loves that one person - her boyfriend. I just feel sad that I won't be as happy anymore. I took the "Are you depressed quiz" I got 84%. And I wish something good would happen. For once. She's very nice to me, and I'm nice to her. Someone give some advice. If no one would then its okay, I guess I may handle this alone for once.

[BlubberProducer]

dude, if shes devoted to the guy then there is nothing you can do..are you planning to wait or something? coz its better if you don't and get on with life. its not easy at first, but at least you are doing something for yourself..

[Nobuo_Uematsu_fairy]

Move on, she's not interested. you'll find another girl you like; you're young and have plenty of time.

[xXPancake-At-The-DiscoXx]

First off, Hi!
Second, I think you need to chill for awhile. A girl's not something that should make you depressed. If you wait for those 2 to break up... Be prepared to wait MONTHS. Seriously, just move on for awhile. Who knows, maybe, she'll realize how much she misses you when you give up, and want you back? wink

[darkness angel]

Hey if she's taken, then there's not a single thing you can do about it. You can't just take her away from her boyfriend. Don't even think about dating her. She's going to think that you are a jerk. She's devoted to her boyfriend so don't interfere with her relationship with her boyfriend. You'll only cause drama into her life and your heart will break. Just move on with your life.

[Xylonyx]

Well, she told my friend and my friend told me that she said her bf is a b***h and he can't fight. And they don't even make a good couple. But she likes me alittle. I'm just going to wait, thanks for some of the advice.

[Xylonyx]

Oh, and I was crying during class, and my friend told her that I was crying because of her, then SHE started crying. So... love's complicated. That's what I hate about it. And another thing I hate about love, you can't kill love between two people.

[Xylonyx]

And I don't really want to move on. And I can't. She's like a wall on front of the road and I can't get through.

[-Jazu-dono-]

Don't worry I feel the same way about my friend. He's devoted to his gf and I still "Kinda" love him, but if he's happy then I'm happy. I guess I'll just have to wait it out and hope there's someone like that for me....very slim chance, though.

*sigh*

[Nobuo_Uematsu_fairy]

Do you seriously want to be the guy that cries in class for months because of a girl?
She might have started crying because she's confused and feels guilty.
Leave her alone and move on; or at least try to for awhile. If she really misses you and wants you, she'll leave her boyfriend and seek you out.
Being desperate blows and is not attractive.

[AmyxPie]

Johnnyyyy (:

youre my friend and all...
but i dont think this is fair to the boyfriend =

there are many fish in the sea, just dont try to hit on another mans girl until shes free..its reaalll bad
but there are other girls!
i hope it works out for youu

[XxFalling_In_ReversexX]

if youve danced with her told her how u feel and shes still nice to u. . .than u could have a little hope tht if they break-up maybe she'll get together with her. . .but dont ask her right away if tht happens comfort her for a while. and keep looking for other girls so u dont get to dissapointed if she didn't pick u

[trampyre]

I remember the first time that happened to me. I know it hurts right now and you probably feel devastated. I went through that time after time when I was in elementary school and high school. But eventually, I found someone that I liked, that liked me back, and it was worth the wait. You just have to remind yourself of that.

Love can be painful but that's part of the joy of life. If things always worked out the way we wanted it wouldn't be half as beautiful ... it would always be the same.

As regards the girl, you could try and just be a good friend to her, but that might hurt you more. Probably the best thing to do is avoid her for a while and try to heal your hurt feelings.

[lee rei]

first off i am in a "sorta" simular situation and if its TRUE LOVE dont give up wait for her even if it takes 1000 years(if your not willing to do this its not TRUE LOVE),if its not move on

but your place for now is to just be her friend comfort her try to be friends with her BF and (this is the hard part)even try to help they're relationship until it falls apart on its own (oh and no more crying anywhere she can see you cause you dont want to hurt her,and you need to be strong for her)

and if indded it is TRUE LOVE,that saying "theres plenty more fish in the sea" it doesn't mean s**t cause theres no point in bein with someone that you dont TRUELY LOVE,and you can only have 1 TRUE LOVE

and remember nothing in this world is more important than love (no not even your blood family)

[SlashSlut]

Was that quiz on myspace?
If so, don't trust it...
And try seeing if there's anyone else you might be
"Intrested" in.