Is it true that guys just want "one thing"?

[Squidy McSquidsworth]

Theawesomemanman

Yeah I want "one thing". I want girls to stop thinking guys only want "one thing". I want girls to stop being stupid and stop dating manipulator's and instead of blaming it on the whole gender, realize that maybe you're the problem and your the one who's letting yourself get manipulated.

That's really more than one thing.

You guys need to learn to choose one. A list isn't one!

[Theawesomemanman]

Squidy McSquidsworth

Theawesomemanman

Yeah I want "one thing". I want girls to stop thinking guys only want "one thing". I want girls to stop being stupid and stop dating manipulator's and instead of blaming it on the whole gender, realize that maybe you're the problem and your the one who's letting yourself get manipulated.

That's really more than one thing.

You guys need to learn to choose one. A list isn't one!

lol you get my point

[Requiscat In Pace]

Squidy McSquidsworth

Why would you have it if you don't want it?

That's like ordering some food to look at it and send it back.

Because my girlfriend wants it. I don't really mind either way, so I'd rather take the path my girlfriend is most comofortable.

[Weesha The Unicorn]

Immature men want one thing

[HaroxxHaro]

Soul Reaper Neko

all i care about is real life problems and being with my girl and no we haven't ever EVER mentioned anything about haveing sex all we care about is being together and why Just think about sex there ARE more important things to be doing with your life then getting laid every second of your life like getting a job, hanging with your friends, going to family occasions, parties, etc... does everyone get what i'm saying and also i'm not agreeing with the guy whom says marriage doesn't mean love marriage Does mean love but not always the same kind of love the type of love differs between the couple so yes i am disagreeing yet agreeing with him but people think from everyones perspective NOT just yours cause if you just think from yours your just another sterotype so if you are one of those sterotypes I WANT YOU TO READ THIS POST AGAIN AND ACTUALLY THINK ON WHAT THE MEANING I'M TRYING TO GET AT DOES MEAN


if you have any questions feel free to pm me

doesnt make sense .-.
marriage doesnt mean love
it can be pity greed forced all that jazz~

[Shinichi Taiki]

Squidy McSquidsworth

Men want one thing just like women want one thing.

exactly.

[Senor Sparkless]

ITT: Girls who think guys are deep, and the forever single men who agree with them.

[iiRawrChocolateCookies]

I'm 13 and my ex boyfriend sorta asked for sex.
I said No talk2hand ,
and hanged up on the phone.
He said he get's turned on my animal sex programs.
And yea most the guys i know are pretty sick.
They talk about sex all the time.
And im like uhh, wtf is wrong with youuu!?!?!?

[iFlorencia Fiction]

Not all guys are idiots, and not every guy is the same. Their are a lot of couple of guys out there that are mature, I'm writing like this because of my experience, my first boyfriend and only boyfriend I ever dated, and still dating him for more than you can imagine, never brought up anything sexual. He has proven to me that he loves me and doesn't care if would of done it or not. Thats why you shouldn't go by what people tell you.

[Anya Romanov]

It's mostly true. Depends on the guy really. I've been dating a guy for almost two years and I have slept with him. It was more my choice though. I've gone through many sex fanatics before I got to the one who actually cares about the relationship.

[Chocolatte Parfait x]

Hey women want sex too. And not every single male is like that. Don't generalize. Not everybody is an a*****e.

[Lexia_Starr]

First of all, you're talking about two extremes at opposite ends of the spectrum. A guy who only talks about sex, tries to reference sex at all times, is always asking for it, pushing for it, guilting for it is a guy who only wants "one thing". A guy who absolutely never talks about sex, brings up sex, references sex or asks about it seems cause for worry about his health and/or sexuality.

Sex is a natural part of most relationships. I think around age 17+ is when sex becomes a real issue. There is absolutely nothing wrong with wanting sex, having sex or enjoying sex responsibly and safely. It's something you have to talk about, agree on and decide together. Just because someone wants sex as a part of their relationships doesn't automatically make them some kind of perverted reprobate.

[OpalSkies]

No, if a guy doesn't meantion sex, that doesn't mean that anything's up. It depends on the guy. It also depends on the guy as to whether or not they only want sex. There are many girls and many guys in the world that think about other things before sex. Everyone wants sex, but that is not nessisarily the first thing they think about. There are guys out there that can have a relationship and wait for sex. When I met my husband, we both wanted to have sex, but I wasn't ready to yet so he waited until I was ready. Meanwhile, we had a great relationship for a while and then we got engaged. It wasn't too long after that that I decided I was ready. If you find the right person, you can be in control of when you will bw ready and you can still have a great relationship.

[freelance lover]

My boyfriend didn't bring up sex until we'd been together for over 10 months. After I said no, he said it was fine and he didn't love me any less. We finally did have sex four months later, but that was because I initiated it. Not all guys just want sex and one who doesn't mention sex isn't weord or gay or anything.

[Tis a Mule_of course]

iFlorencia Fiction

Not all guys are idiots, and not every guy is the same. Their are a lot of couple of guys out there that are mature, I'm writing like this because of my experience, my first boyfriend and only boyfriend I ever dated, and still dating him for more than you can imagine, never brought up anything sexual. He has proven to me that he loves me and doesn't care if would of done it or not. Thats why you shouldn't go by what people tell you.

One boyfriend does not equate to much experience, dear. Your boyfriend may be a very rare exception--I don't personally know any guys (or girls, for that matter) that will gladly stay in a relationship that is void of any and all sex.

@OP: No, the male species does not only want "one thing." Whoever told you that is either trying to get you to remain abstinent the rest of your life, or is sorely mistaken ("naive" may serve as a better word, now that I think about it). If the guy are you with wants sex on a regular basis, it doesn't necessarily mean that's all he wants--you guys just may not be sexually compatible. I have no qualms in admitting that, if I ever dated a guy who has a low to no sex drive, I wouldn't be dating him for very long.

I can tell you that I have a higher sex drive than a lot of guys I know (and that is saying a lot), and I'm not male.