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Post: 2833282_1 created on Wed Jun 30, 2004 5:53 pmPosted: Wed Jun 30, 2004 5:53 pm
Yes, please do.

My special differently-abled darling!

Yes, the above sentence is becoming a hip sentence with middle aged God-fearing American soccer-mums. New words seem to be replacing old ones when it comes to disabilities – especially mental ones. Well now, we all know that “cripple� is now more an insult than a description of a condition. No mother would call their own child “crippled� anymore, even if it’s the truth. Same case with the word “Moron�. “With special needs� and “unique� are now replacing “disabled� and “incapable of doing…� Why? Political correctness? Why change words that so perfectly describe the truth, and play a game of “beat around the bush with implications�? Because, as mentioned before, many of the commonly used descriptive words have mutated into insults. Nobody wants to be moronic, or crippled. These types of people are stereotypically perceived as weak, stupid, incapable - not very nice things to be. Some very smart person came to the conclusion that the use of different, less specific words will get rid of this problem. “differently abled� replaces “disabled�, “special� replaces “incapable� (usually), “unique needs� replaces “incapable, dependant�.
But then something went wrong. Terribly wrong. Somebody forgot to reflect for a second why the words that are now being replaced mutated into negative rather than descriptive attributes. Simple answer… it’s the state of the person usually described with these words. Now, would it make much sense then to replace the word, when the condition is not replaced? Will the vicious circle not start again? Guess what… it’s starting again. Healthy Sammy don’t wanna be “special� no more, and healthy Cindy don’t wanna be “unique�. Isn’t being unique and special just great? Not since these terms are, quite obviously being taken over by people describing their disabled children/siblings/relatives/friends. I wouldn’t like to be called “special� or “unique� myself anymore (I’m quite obviously unique – just like everyone else is). Random people I have talked to on the internet agree that these words definitely remind them more of disability than of anything else. They state that if they were crippled, they’d prefer to be called that word, because it’s plain and simply the truth, instead of having someone bite their way out of it by using politically correct terms implying the condition. They agreed with me, stating that if someone told them that they were special, the first thought they’d have is “but I’m not disabled, Goddarn�! Through this new political correctness innocent terms are being whored, resulting in the creation of new swearwords conveying the exact same insult. This plan backfires, and the use of these new terms is basically useless. Once you start using a term, any term, to refer to a marred person, the term (however vague or positive) promptly transforms into a swearword when used against a “healthy� person, simply because the attributes associated with this word change and the more people use these terms to replace the old ones, the more people are aware of this change, the more these words will be associated almost exclusively with disabled people, and used in the usual way against people who are not disabled – as insults. I have actually heard the phrase “wow, we’re being unique today� on a message board, when the user of this phrase wanted to tell another of his stupidity. See? It’s already happening. The persons who came up with these superfluous and ridiculously stupid terms to replace the old ones must be gnashing their teeth. “I have replaced words solely describing specific attributes with general terms that can be used flexibly, where did I go wrong? How could this happen�? Well, after all this you’ll be able to make out where you went wrong. Here’s what I have to say to you who use these new terms thinking you’re well off the insolence hook: You fail.


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Post: 2833282_2 created on Wed Jun 30, 2004 5:59 pmPosted: Wed Jun 30, 2004 5:59 pm
 
I commonly insult people by remarking how special or unique they are.

My personal favorite: "That's why you ride the SHORT bus!"
     
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Post: 2833282_3 created on Wed Jun 30, 2004 6:00 pmPosted: Wed Jun 30, 2004 6:00 pm
's**t pisses me off too. Have you seen the commercial that outright said "Kids with learning disabilities are smart?" I'm sorry, but just like with everyone else, that's often NOT the case. And of course, this politically correct terminology s**t applies to more than just the disabled... Er, ah... "Unique." I've seen it with gays and old people too. Apparently, some think that "homosexual" is now offensive. Yup. It's too "cold and clinical," as if it's a "disease." And "senior citizen" is offensive now in some places. Yup. Now it's "older person," which I think is more offensive than senior citizen. But that's the cycle in action. Eventually, "older person" will become offensive and it'll change to "senior citizen."
 
     
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Post: 2833282_4 created on Wed Jun 30, 2004 6:04 pmPosted: Wed Jun 30, 2004 6:04 pm
 
heh.. you guys speak my language. It's pissing me off bigtime too. They can seriously just cut all of that. We know what it means anyhow. ninja
     
Post: 2833282_5 created on Wed Jun 30, 2004 6:05 pmPosted: Wed Jun 30, 2004 6:05 pm
It doesn't piss me off, people call others what they want to. Though I still call them retards. And I still laugh and point at them . . . my philosophy being, "If they weren't ment to be laughed at, why the hell are they so god damned funny?"
 
     
Post: 2833282_6 created on Wed Jun 30, 2004 6:09 pmPosted: Wed Jun 30, 2004 6:09 pm
 
Nefarious Soy
"If they weren't ment to be laughed at, why the hell are they so god damned funny?"


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Post: 2833282_7 created on Wed Jun 30, 2004 6:26 pmPosted: Wed Jun 30, 2004 6:26 pm
People are afraid to say what they really mean because they don't want anyone to be pissed off. For example, my mother acts crazy when someone is even slightly blunt in this fashion. She'll start crying until the "offender" apologizes. She's not even in any of those categories. It's pathetic.
 
     
Post: 2833282_8 created on Wed Jun 30, 2004 6:30 pmPosted: Wed Jun 30, 2004 6:30 pm
 
At my school in Canada refer to Mentaly Disabled people by that or "Mentally Delayed"
     
Post: 2833282_9 created on Wed Jun 30, 2004 6:31 pmPosted: Wed Jun 30, 2004 6:31 pm
Nefarious Soy
It doesn't piss me off, people call others what they want to. Though I still call them retards. And I still laugh and point at them . . . my philosophy being, "If they weren't ment to be laughed at, why the hell are they so god damned funny?"


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I'm against political correctness, but I'm also against singling out people who can't help the way they are and being cruel to them.
     

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People are afraid to say what they really mean because they don't want anyone to be pissed off. For example, my mother acts crazy when someone is even slightly blunt in this fashion. She'll start crying until the "offender" apologizes. She's not even in any of those categories. It's pathetic.


3nodding It's sad.
 
     
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's**t pisses me off too. Have you seen the commercial that outright said "Kids with learning disabilities are smart?" I'm sorry, but just like with everyone else, that's often NOT the case. And of course, this politically correct terminology s**t applies to more than just the disabled... Er, ah... "Unique." I've seen it with gays and old people too. Apparently, some think that "homosexual" is now offensive. Yup. It's too "cold and clinical," as if it's a "disease." And "senior citizen" is offensive now in some places. Yup. Now it's "older person," which I think is more offensive than senior citizen. But that's the cycle in action. Eventually, "older person" will become offensive and it'll change to "senior citizen."


Saying "homosexual" is offensive seems retarded to me. I use homosexual to bring in gays and lesbians in one word. Before "queer" was okay, then it was offensive, now it's okay again. Honestly, I'm into being politically correct, I say Native American instead of Indian (mainly because the term Indian is confusing), but it's gotten out of hand.
     
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I don't soften my language for anyone. Unless I'm threatened with a ban or something.
     
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And that's why we must call the retards retards! Go Go Retardoboy!
 
     
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